The real life of a prostitute — what is it like? What happens to them and how they end up
Prostitutes, whores, prostitutes—these women have many names, but their world has always been vicious and shameful, and very attractive to the eyes and minds of wealthy and respectable women. Remember in “Gone with the Wind” when the doctor’s wife inquires with such curiosity about the state of the brothels?
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This world has been described by writers from all over the world. Among them are Kuprin in “The Pit,” Balzac in “The Splendor and Misery of a Prostitute,” and Zola in “Nana.” Subsequently, cinema did not ignore or discard this eternal theme. “Pretty Woman,” “Intergirl,” “Taxi Driver,” “Fatal Beauty,” “Italian Marriage,” and many others.
Why does this world of debauchery and ugliness attract so much attention? Art played a major role. Writers, artists, and directors created images of vibrant, interesting women, often overly romanticizing their existence.
Understandably, everything related to the intimate side of life is intriguing, but without the graceful touch of pen and brush, this phenomenon becomes less appealing. Unfortunately, while describing the adventures of women of simple virtue, they often omit their tragic fates. Happy endings are typical only of Hollywood films and are rare in real life.
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Their lifestyle is the dream of many young dreamers. Money, wealth, yachts, houses, and, perhaps, Palaces. Life is like a fairy tale. And it is a fairy tale. In reality, everything is much more ordinary.
Rich men can and will happily support a young, beautiful woman, but that doesn’t mean her life will be a paradise. Young and beautiful men don’t have to pay to sleep with someone. So, perhaps the man will be middle-aged and unattractive. But that’s not the worst thing.
Rarely does anyone not count their money. That is, a woman who eats and drinks may be content, well-dressed, and even drive a nice car, but that doesn’t mean she’ll lose more than her allowance. Finally, a man invests money not in her, but in his own pleasure. He rejoices that the woman he supports is beautiful, and everyone envies him.
They also boast about their pedigree dogs and horses, expensive cars and houses. They buy them for themselves, and they buy them. Boring things. They are sold or thrown away. They do the same thing when they get tired of the woman who keeps them, or when they get old. Unfortunately, this happens very quickly. Perhaps she will be lucky and find someone else. Perhaps never.
However, with each subsequent owner, she moves down a notch. Ultimately, it all ends quite tragically.
Of course, every young woman who embarks on the path of a whore dreams of ripping off her rich, stupid dads and becoming rich and prosperous. Some succeed. But to succeed, you need a good character, practical acumen, and luck. Of course, this happens all the time in movies and books. But life isn’t so rosy.
To achieve great things in life, you have to be unusual. And especially in our country, the rich are mostly like that. This means it’s not so easy to turn him into a lover, smitten with long legs or a full chest. And it’s even less likely that he’ll let them deprive him of his wealth.
He’s an excellent money manager. He didn’t just fall out of the sky. Wealthy dynasties are still rare, so almost everyone achieved success on their own. A young, foolish girl might feel like she’s lost her mind, but even then, it’s temporary and will soon pass. Her friend comes to her senses and sorts everything out.
No one has statistics on how many kept women remain rich until the end of their lives. But it’s clear that the number is very small. And those who lose everything are hundreds of times greater.
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Vladimir Kunin wrote about their world in “Intergirl,” later depicted in Pyotr Todorovsky’s film of the same name. Despite the rather tragic ending of this story, the life of a prostitute seems quite charming and romantic. Indeed, there were several young women who genuinely wanted to earn more money, but soon fell into this affair.
Assuming a young woman without connections or connections manages to find herself among them, her life is hardly enviable. Besides hotels, such women work in closed brothels and are provided for by acquaintances. At least for a while, they earn quite a lot of money.
However, entertaining the man who pays them is hard work. It satisfies his desires and satisfies all his needs. It has nothing in common with ordinary sex. It is hard, uncomfortable physical labor. She is physically exhausted and, to a much lesser extent, mentally. As a rule, there is only one way to relieve stress: try to forget. That is, try to forget. Alcohol or drugs, or both—depending on the lucky person.
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Want to imagine what it’s like to satisfy the sexual desires of every man in sight? Imagine the job of a nurse who has to care for the sick. Let’s assume they’re not entirely vulnerable and their illness doesn’t evoke compassion. Not everyone can do that, right? Imagine that she has to not only care for him, but also please him in every possible way. Not just with her hands, but with her whole body and, just in case, with her mouth. I even Glad. It’s unlikely to work sober.
This work is exhausting for everyone. It drains both physical and mental strength. Over time, it begins to take much more money than it brings in. Furthermore, constantly changing sexual partners rarely avoids infections of varying severity. No condom is 100% safe, no matter how reliably they are used. Things happen: they get torn off and removed. And not everyone uses them during oral sex.
As a rule, high-end prostitutes at the right level can command a high price for several years. Only a few have more than 10 years of experience. After that, their levels and prices inevitably decline.
Former prostitutes rarely find the strength to quit their jobs and take lower-paying ones. So they continue the same practice at a different level.
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At the next level, they service everyone in line for a small sum of money. At the very least, there’s no room for beauty and fun. At this level, confusion is used. In general, quality and quantity are irrelevant. She is no longer human. She is bought to satisfy desire in all its forms.
Advertisements offering intimate services are posted on every lamppost. At the station, along the road, you can see many young women—but not young—offering their services for pennies. Station prostitutes serve clients in restrooms and secluded corners. And the shoulders standing along the large railroad tracks are called “shoulders” in the only possible position in a freight taxi.
They belong to prostitutes. There’s nowhere to go. Where do older prostitutes go? In most cases, they don’t live to a ripe old age. Illness, alcohol, drugs. Who searches for the missing and doesn’t know where to confuse them? Who cares if she might be killed, beaten, or abused? There’s no one to protect her but herself. When you’re riding low, you inevitably disappear.
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Confession of a prostitute: victim of gang rape, 4 suicides, BDSM, sex on mephedrone
Of course, in dreams, everything happens with “beauty.” You see a wealthy saleswoman on the street, fall in love, get pulled out of her misery, and become her wife. In reality, it’s very difficult to imagine anyone forgetting the touch of a man’s hands, much less hers. Even if love compels them to do so, it’s highly doubtful the effect will last. A happy family life is unlikely to await them.
But that doesn’t mean there’s no way. It’s always there, and all it takes is incredible willpower and preparation.
If a girl who decided to become a prostitute was smart enough, she should have taken care of a preliminary Plan B. This would save a large sum of money, regardless of whether the plot was successful or not. The most she could do was create conditions that would withstand her future life. If you’ve acquired an education and a specialty while working, you have the opportunity to escape. Unfortunately, not everyone understands this.
Do prostitutes get married? Yes, of course. Not like in the movies, because ordinary people aren’t stunningly wealthy princes. Of course, in most cases, the husband knows nothing of his wife’s past, but there are exceptions. Thanks to modern medicine, some even give birth to perfectly healthy children.
Do these women feel regret after all their adventures? Unlikely. Sorry—of course. But these women sleep soundly and happily. And in their families, they are happy and contented wives. Their life experience is wonderful, and they don’t mumble.
Women who managed to escape a bad life, recover, and build a new, normal life are very strong. They are the kind of women whose horses and barns burn. However, it’s important to remember that these aren’t even thousands, perhaps not even hundreds of thousands of people.
Is it possible to cope with prostitution as a social phenomenon?
Perhaps it’s impossible. Perhaps prostitution has existed as long as human society. Even in ancient times, hetaerae existed. And they won’t disappear in the future.
What drives ordinary girls to the streets? The circumstances can be very different. Girls from poor, disadvantaged families don’t always end up there. What’s surprising isn’t just that they’re driven by money. Romance. Adventure. Fantasy. Youthful foolishness. Drugs, of course. Unrequited love, depression, lust, “let it be worse for anyone” or “nobody needs me, come what may.”
For some, just one experience is enough to understand that it’s stupid and wrong. Psychologically, for many, sex without love is violence. A newly minted prostitute agrees, even if her man doesn’t directly commit it. She’s committing violence against herself. The client, in this case, is simply a tool. The horrific filth and abuse after the first time can turn a woman off not only this work but sex in general.
Nature itself doesn’t allow her body to be used by just anyone—a woman can’t dispose of it in such a way. Breaking this defense is no easy task. It’s no exaggeration to say that if a woman hasn’t experienced such withdrawal, she’s already experienced serious trauma that has destroyed this instinct. Prostitutes are often victims of rape and “punish” themselves in the same way.
Social problems cannot be underestimated. Selling one’s body for money is a seemingly simple and easy way to make money. It’s much easier than doing hard, simple work for little pay. We’ve already discussed the addiction it can cause and the consequences it can lead to. There’s no such thing as a free lunch—that truth is welcome here.
Despite the moral and ethical aspects, there would be many more prostitutes if everything were simple.
Besides the psychological or social causes of prostitution, there are also purely economic ones. As cynical as it may sound, demand creates supply. As long as there are men who are lonely, or not quite lonely, and forced to pay for intimate services, prostitution will exist. Scientific and technological progress won’t stop him.
