The real reasons why adult films are harmful
Sexologist, psychiatrist and psychotherapist of the highest category. I have been working as a sexologist for more than 10 years. I help couples solve their problems in their sex life.
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Before we scare all the porn lovers out there, let”s start with some facts and statistics. Just because no one around you watches pornography and you”ve never seen it in your life (little liar), that doesn”t mean porn sites are suffering from devastation. Frankly speaking, sites containing pornographic videos and images are some of the most popular in the world.
- The most popular site in this area is the well-known pornhub. com
- A few years ago, curious guys decided to find out how often users visit the site and watch the adult day movie. The resulting figures are truly impressive — more than two million visits per month, three and a half dozen visits per hour and almost six thousand visits per minute.
- The USA is the leader among libertines. America has the largest number of porn fans.
- By the end of the year, the number of views on the site exceeds 70 billion (billions, Karl!).
- Videos tagged “lesbians” and “mommy” are in great demand.
- Sasha Gray is most in demand in Russia. (Who is Sasha Grey?)
- Monday is the most popular day for viewing porn among users (apparently, Monday is a really hard day).
- Filipinos are one of the most long-living nations. Their average visit to a porn site takes longer than, for example, Americans (12 minutes and 9 minutes, respectively).
- The majority of porn lovers among the fair half of humanity live in Brazil (about 30% of the population).
- Women are more accepting of same-sex sex and “group fun.”
- World-wide sporting competitions (such as the World Football Championship) take away the popularity of porn sites — on such days the number of visits drops sharply.
So let”s get straight to the horrific facts!
Deadly sin
No, this is not debauchery or gluttony. Our conversation is about laziness (despondency, if we speak in more “biblical” terms), which quickly develops in all porn addicts.
To satisfy their physiological needs, people either look for others themselves or open precious sites that are precariously stored in their browser bookmarks.
In the first case, you need to organize yourself — at least wash, comb your hair and shave (it’s even more difficult for girls to make an appointment for hair removal), pick out clothes and go on a date. Alternatively, set up an apartment and wait for your partner in formal wear. Singles also need to find a future sexual partner somewhere. Explore dating apps, succumb to the pressure of caring friends and parents, date blindly, make a good impression on the first meeting, build relationships, maintain them, etc. The whole quest, damn it. After all, you”re not even guaranteed sex. People tend to fail to live up to other people”s expectations.
Now let”s look at the second option. Just stay home alone (locked in your room), open the website and select a video of your choice. Something businesslike. The success of a company depends solely on its mood and the quality of its Internet connection.
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People get used to treating sex like fast food. Over time, porn addicts become more and more distant from sexual contacts with real people and lose their taste for real sexual intercourse. They”re just lazy. They don’t need to deal with their appearance, apartment, body, personal life, sexual skills, etc., when they can just click a few times.
Make no mistake, there is nothing wrong with paying to watch pornography. Many people draw sexual knowledge from the masterpieces of the porn industry and successfully apply it in practice.
However, porn addicts spend hours, weeks and months glued to their screens. They gradually lose the ability to build relationships with people and increase the amount of pornography in their blood. They satisfy their sexual needs, but the need for live communication, togetherness and other “romantic nonsense” remains suppressed by cynical jokes and terabytes of low-quality pornography.
Disappointment
After viewing pornographic images, men and women expect something incredibly magical from sex, and then feel deeply disappointed. This is especially true for the first sexual experience. Sex is much more complex than sex movies or explicit romantic melodramas make it out to be, but it is also a much more primitive expression of human nature.
The more time a person spends watching movies and the less they encounter real, three-dimensional people, the more their head becomes filled with postage stamps and idealized images.
In real life, sex is full of inevitable awkward and funny moments. To start a relationship with them, you need to gain significant sexual experience and simultaneously establish a trusting relationship with your partner. In a long-term, strong relationship, various awkward moments, embarrassments, and inappropriate pornographic images are just special memories and jokes that only two people can understand.
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High demands
And a little compliance with them, I might add.
Boys won”t be able to see girls from their surroundings when they see big-breasted blonde roller skaters with perfectly smooth skin and acrobatic stunts. They”re beautiful, but not perfect. And they can”t put their legs behind their heads. Who needs that? Since ancient times, girls have had their own version of pornography—a melodrama with a happy ending and beautiful sex scenes. Not even sex, but love. Ding. Action heroes are also very sexually attractive, performing heroic deeds (both in and out of bed), and caring only about their partner”s pleasure.
However, the reality is that good sex is a benefit for two people (or more, but that”s not the point now). One-sided games are disgusting to those who don”t suffer from a pathological tendency toward altruism. And people are imperfect by nature. Besides, guys aren”t always ready for sex—they have problems when their brains are literally boiling, they”re tired, and they”re not in the mood. And girls aren”t always smooth—their skin is skinny and lacy. Sometimes they get injections in their legs, and their buttocks are adorned with polka-dot cotton panties.
Besides, it”s worth noting that even at their best, a hardcore porn addict doesn”t look like a brat. Otherwise, it would never be pornography. Some of them act as a shield—the loss of social skills causes a fear of meeting new people, but they themselves don”t admit this fear. They convince everyone and themselves that “he/she isn”t right for me,” “I”m just unlucky,” “all girls only want money, but I want something special,” “all people want sex, but I only need my soul to convince everyone and myself that I need someone special.”
Film example
Film example
He turns on girls like a glove and doesn’t go a day without porn. His whole world was like a buffet, he had girls of all shapes, colors and sizes. But no one could interest him more than watching porn films. So it was for the time being. In short: happy ending, addiction recovery and harmony. We don”t spoil it. The film, despite its obvious primitiveness, has a rather deep meaning. It has a lot of beautiful girls and a rather attractive main character.
Warning: This film contains scenes from various pornographic films, so if you are around children, pregnant women or hypocrites, turn down the volume before watching.
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