7 Exciting Steps to Spicing Up Your Sex Life
Sex and everyday life don”t mix. Want to try something new and refresh your relationship? Then use these ideas.
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A Second Wind for Your Sex Life
- Fantasies.
Unfortunately, very few couples can boast of being able to comfortably have frank conversations about sexual topics. How much do you know about each other”s secret fantasies? Do you actively share and implement them? Excellent. Do you cherish them alone and shamefully hide them from your partner? Obstacles!
Make a list of harmful substances and swap them. Or share them in an adult card game (sets of questions and tasks are sold in sex shops). Tips during sex.
Or: “I want to be like that!” And declare it directly. While watching romantic or pornographic films together. The choice is yours. Of course, you can wait for your partner to figure it out on their own. But when that happens in 20 years, will your venerable joint be ready for the experiment?
- Dirty talk.
Yes, the proverbial dirty talk isn”t for everyone. Some people enjoy coarse and obscene language, insults, and vulgarity. Others will, at best, look at such liberties with bewilderment, and, at worst, allow you to lie in bed alone. Everyone is different: you might be a diligent student, an art student, or a law student.
But you”re a diligent student and have completed the previous step, right? Have you discovered that your relationship is dominated by a “dirty” attitude? If you want to talk dirty but aren”t yet ready to take action, start by being open about what you plan to do with each other today. By the way, you can also include this in your message—it could be a kind of foreplay.
- Unusual sensations.
Play with your senses. Blindfold yourself. Try lubricants with a cooling or warming effect. Buy a few adult toys and other adult accessories (clamps, plugs, vibrating rings, etc.).
You live in a wonderful time, and the possibilities for experimentation are endless! Is it worth wasting your already short life trying the same food every day?
It”s a common way to spice up sex, but how many couples actually resort to it? You can act out a scene from your favorite movie, or use the old trick of going to a public place and “meeting” as if you were meeting for the first time.
This is especially true for couples who have lived together for a long time and have stopped “trying.” The other half has long been conquered and has nowhere to run, so what’s the point of not going on dates and worrying about appearance? It”s time to shake up the old. There is always time to lie at home and watch pizza and TV shows.
- Who is the boss in this house?
Is he always the initiator of sex, takes an aggressive position and leads the process? It”s time for female domination! She is the queen of the ball, and he is her faithful servant? Time for a revolution!
Active/Passive partner, even if you are comfortable with it, why not try it? What if you like it?
Read also: 10 habits that will improve your sex life
Sex is a necessary part of every couple”s life. When a relationship has just begun, sex is usually hot and long. But gradually there is newness.
Bondage is perhaps one of the easiest ways to join the secret BDSM community. You can purchase special sets in the same store for adults or use improvised means. However, do not use clothing items made from very elastic materials (for example, tights). There is a big risk that the knot you tie with your passion will be tightened.
Don”t overdo it—tightening the bondage too tightly can cut off circulation. Even if you start thinking about group sex, it”s unlikely that the ambulance crew will want you to join them.
If a couple of handcuffs and curse words aren”t enough, you can go further and truly plunge into the world of BDSM. But remember to take precautions and gradually increase the difficulty level. And, of course, include a safe word or stop making jokes in advance.
Crazy Sex: Real Stories
Do the above ideas seem too simple to you? Or do you lack the adventurous spirit and are looking for inspiration? Then read the anonymous stories of these couples. Determined to spice up their sex life, they approached the problem with all the enthusiasm they could muster.
P. S. Read the stories together. The blood is boiling in your veins!
- Caught Red.
“My boyfriend came into the room and saw me masturbating with a vibrator. It only lasted a few minutes. He had seen enough of me, so he undressed and joined me.
He entered me from behind, taking possession of my toy. It was amazing. I can”t believe it wasn”t a fantasy.”
Audiobook: A Stunning Stranger — Alla Chovzhik 2022
“My best sex story happened with my boyfriend. We went to his house, it was very early in the morning. I started kissing his neck and stroking his thighs. And not only that.
. when I saw his dick waking up, I started teasing him even more. “My panties helped. Now I want to feel your rock cock.”
Suddenly he turned into a field and parked. He grabbed me by the hair and started kissing me and lovingly caressing me with his fingers. I”m really wet here. He took off my T-shirt, shorts and panties. He then said that if I was really ready, he would climb on it.
He gave up the seat and I climbed on his dick and started moving. The orgasms were mind-blowing, but every time I came, he asked me not to stop. He said that he would hold me until I passed out and covered him with my juices.
Then I had to turn on the air conditioning and open the windows — they were fogged up. Forty-five minutes later, barely alive from fatigue, we reached the store to buy drinks.”
That night he said I couldn”t touch him. He controlled everything. Words cannot explain my excitement.”
“We decided to try swinging. And when we were done with our new acquaintance, we had sex with each other. It was ten times better than usual.”
My boyfriend, my girlfriend and I went for lunch. Immediately I took off my bra and gave it to the guy. Then we both went to the cinema.
When we sat down in the hall, he reached under my skirt with his hand and began to make love to me. Then he pulled out his hand and licked my fingers — this made me steam, but I couldn’t. When the session ended, we hurried home.
After we tore each other”s clothes off, he gave me amazing cunnilingus. He kissed every inch of my body, and I begged him to fill me from the inside. And think for yourself what happened next.”
- Marriage games.
“It was on vacation with my husband. We decided to have something to drink and dance. I moved sexier than usual to impress my husband. When he decided to take a break, a man came up to me. He asked if my husband would like to dance with me if he wanted.
I agreed, the man was quite nice. We moved to slow music and he held me close to him, it was quite hot.
Then I returned to my husband. We started kissing at the bar. When we got back to the car, he said that I was very sexy and all the guys were looking at me.
Already in the car, he started kissing me again, lifted my short top and felt my breasts. Then he took off my top and bra, bent me over the hood of our car, lifted my skirt, took off my panties and owned me there! I told him that I was a wonderful wife and a sexy slut. It was all over very quickly.”
