Dildo vs. vibrator: what to choose? Instructions for beginners
According to recent surveys and studies, the topic of masturbation and its accessories (various types of vibrators) is no longer a closely guarded secret. 68% of women admitted to openly discussing this topic with their partners. Surprisingly, it’s even easier to talk about this topic with friends—77% of respondents comfortably discuss purchasing adult toys with friends.
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When buying a vibrator, choose a quality product. Furthermore, take the time to find the right one for you. There are many different products on the market, including vibrators for clitoral stimulation, G-spot stimulation, and couples’ stimulators. Our guide will help you navigate this diversity.
Which vibrator is the best?
If you’re new to the world of adult toys, the sheer variety of products can be overwhelming. Knowing which vibrator to choose, what to focus on (besides budget), and trying to find the best vibrator out of all the others. But the truth is, there’s no perfect toy for everyone. It’s all highly individual and depends primarily on your body’s characteristics (for example, clitoral sensitivity).
How do you plan to use the vibrator? There are products for external and internal stimulation (and products that can kill two birds with one stone). What actions and manipulations do you personally enjoy? What actions from your partner bring you to orgasm? Think about these questions before choosing a vibrator.
Do you enjoy clitoral stimulation? Choose a toy for external stimulation. Do you enjoy the light touch of your fingers? Then the Vibropulus is right for you. The large vibrating bullet is ideal for those who prefer a large toy that stimulates a larger area.
If non-penetrative sex and masturbation aren’t your thing, opt for vibrators for internal stimulation.
But what if you want it all? Penetration and clitoral stimulation? Then the best option would be a Rabbit vibrator. Or other toys that combine several functions.
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For some women, external stimulation alone isn’t enough to achieve orgasm. Are you one of them? In this case, avoid the classics – vaginal vibrators with curved tips. Their shape works wonders on the G-spot and helps “awaken” it, allowing you to better explore their bodies and capabilities.
Some toys also have a rib-like surface, as this provides additional stimulation to the vaginal walls. There are also other models, shaped like an egg, the tip of which stimulates the G-spot.
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Combination vibrators—the cape is ideal for women who want to achieve clitoral orgasm through penetration and stimulation.
Combination vibrators often look like the aforementioned G-stimulators. They have a similar shape, but differ in the presence of a small vibrating attachment in the shape of a rabbit. There are also models with more abstract shapes that operate according to the same principles, but the vibration process is not as detailed as in the rabbit model.
More advanced toys are controlled via a smartphone app. Prices for such models start at $100 and up.
For couples
Have you decided to spice up your intimate life by inviting a “third person” into your bedroom? That’s a good idea. It’s not just about deciding which toys are suitable for couples.
A pair of vibrators can be absolutely any of the listed types—vaginal, pubic, or combination. There are also very invisible models for internal stimulation.
The versatility of these two vibrators is truly astounding. Remote controls, smartphone-connected toys, and much more are available to suit every taste and budget.
Before purchasing, consult with your partner. What are your expectations for the toys of the future? Are you looking for shared pleasure?
Beware of thin and flexible vibrators—they fit easily between you and provide unforgettable sensations during sex. Additionally, if you want to give your partner the opportunity to exert some control over your body for added pleasure, consider a remote-controlled vibrator.
Long-distance relationships are a great opportunity to try adult toys that connect to your smartphone. They can be controlled from anywhere. Some can even mimic your partner’s touch—you can set your own mode and adjust the speed.
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Sizes and Materials
Be especially careful when purchasing.
Don’t buy toys recklessly – be sure to read the specifications. Otherwise, your enjoyment will be spoiled – the vibrator might be the wrong size, you might not like the material, etc.
Is it worth saving money and buying a vibrator you don’t like the look of? I think not. Vibrators evoke comfort and a desire to use them for their intended purpose; don’t throw them in the bottom of your closet with your clothes.
What wasn’t mentioned above is the need to pay special attention to the materials the product is made from.
Not least because you or your partner may have an allergic reaction. The material should be comfortable for you, at best.
Silicone is one of the most popular materials. It’s very soft and completely safe for the skin. To protect their customers, many manufacturers use “medical-grade silicone.” What does this mean? The material has passed biocompatibility tests and is non-toxic when interacting with bodily fluids.
Gel rubber is a soft and somewhat adaptable material. Products made from gel rubber mimic human skin. It’s an excellent and very affordable alternative to silicone.
Note: If you or your partner have a latex allergy, consider purchasing a vibrator made from a different material.
Plastic belly plastic is not a suitable material for durability. It’s used to make Lego toys. Oddly enough, children have grown up, but the toys remain (albeit in a different shape). If you like hard, firm toys, beware of this material.
Avoid anything with liquids—chemicals used to make the material flexible. Your health isn’t worth the risk. Note that the box says “phthalate-free.”
If you prefer toys made from more realistic materials, remember to clean them thoroughly. They are more porous than their hard plastic or silicone counterparts, making them a breeding ground for bacteria.
Speed, Mode, and Settings
When purchasing a vibrator, pay attention to the range of settings and speeds offered. Rechargeable vibrators are often the cheapest and most popular. If you’re eager to explore the world of sex toys, more expensive brand-name models costing over 10,000 rubles are out of your price range. Look for the “battery” option. Many high-quality models will provide you with a wealth of unforgettable sensations. However, don’t forget to buy spare batteries. It’s a real shame if your vibrator suddenly dies in the middle of orgasm.
A re-injured toy will cost you more. However, these incidents can be avoided. On the other hand, rechargeable vibrators can be discharged in the same way during the process. Basically, it’s all about luck and responsibility—don’t forget to charge the toy or replace the batteries.
Vibrators: what they are, what types there are, and how to choose one
Still unsure which toy to choose? Let’s compare them together.
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Advantages of battery-powered toys:
- No need to wait for the battery to charge. Insert the batteries and start using them.
- They’re easy to travel with—remove the battery to avoid unexpected activation and buzzing in your suitcase.
- Battery-powered products are often quieter.
- You need to buy batteries regularly, which is an additional expense.
- Some vibrators use special batteries that are difficult to find commercially.
Advantages of rechargeable toys:
- This type of vibrator is more expensive than battery-powered vibrators.
- You must charge the toy before using it. When this happens during sex, it can be particularly inconvenient.
On_control
As mentioned above, some vibrators are controlled by a remote control. There are also many models of couples’ toys. How to use? Remote-controlled vibrators feature a separate device that allows control over a short distance.
Controlled via a smartphone app, vibrators are a real find for partners living far apart. You can control them from anywhere, as long as you have an internet connection.
Lubricant
Don’t forget about lube. It’s essential if you want to experience the full benefits of the toys you’ve purchased. Which lube should you choose? You can start with water-based products—they’re cheaper, safer, and won’t stain like others. However, they can dry out quickly.
Note: Don’t use silicone lubricant with silicone toys—it can damage the material.
Travel Options
Vibrators (or entire collections) are safe to take with you when traveling. However, be careful not to accidentally turn on the toy in your backpack, bag, or suitcase. Choose a more modern model if you travel frequently, as not all models are equipped with special locks. When purchasing a vibrator, make sure the lock works. Learn how to turn it on and off.
What should I do if the model doesn’t have a lock button and I’m worried about getting into an awkward situation? We recommend completely discharging the toy and placing it in your luggage. Batteries are much easier—just remove them (but don’t forget to pack them).
Silent Spy
If you’re concerned about them eavesdropping, choose a model that doesn’t self-select. Carefully review the toy’s specifications before purchasing. 40 dB or less? Excellent! For comparison, the average volume of a whisper is 30 dB, and the average volume of a quiet conversation is about 60 dB. Before purchasing a vibrator in a store, turn it on full power to evaluate its volume.
Hygiene
No matter how you use the Aron vibrator, use it with someone else. Always clean the product thoroughly to protect it from infection and extend the life of your “friend.” Besides, keeping adult toys clean isn’t all that difficult.
Use unscented antibacterial soap and warm water both before and after use. You can also purchase special clitoral cleaners for toys—they’re sold in sex shops and sometimes included with the product. Allow the toy (bag, pouch, etc.) to dry completely in its box before use. It’s best to purchase a separate satin pouch for the vibrator (or a model that comes with a case).
P.S. If you can’t afford a more advanced model, consider more affordable alternatives. For example, if you want to buy a Womanizer but it’s too expensive, consider a Satisfaction Master or Romp. Of course, cheaper alternatives have a different feature set and don’t have the Womanizer’s luxurious accessories (storage, booklets, replacement attachments, etc.), but they’re perfectly adequate for pampering yourself without breaking the bank. Harmless partners that don’t cause harm.
