How do you destroy your man”s sexual desire?
Helpless? Women often name men who are completely unable to satisfy all their sexual needs. But you create your man and create him yourself! If the cause is indeed sexual dysfunction, do not discount the matter. Then you need to see a sexologist. Think about when a woman is the creator of her sexual well-being and its destroyer.
Contents of the article:
What leads to loss of sexual desire
Sometimes you don’t even understand what you did to make him lose interest in you. And what I said/did is the main assumption. And the main mistake. Men are the stronger sex, but in gender relations they often fall into fear. Thus, their nature is such that sometimes simplicity of thought interferes with accuracy of perception. And he can’t even say what exactly isn’t happening because he offended him too much.
– you tell him what to do
In sex, partners are equal. He expresses his desires, and you express yours. But sometimes you don”t realize that you will never stop challenging his wishes.
Let me have cunnilingus, you say. But you reject the suggestion of cross-stimulation of the genital area (S O-Called Posure 69). Not to mention the blowjob. Be honest—you often think of this type of oral sex as a sign of male dominance. But in fact, a man has the same right to express his desires — and refuse to fulfill yours.
What you do may not only apply to the bed. When you start ordering your partner around for the rest of his life and preventing him from acting on his own, he begins to cave in psychologically. This leads to inhibition of sexual arousal. The man begins to worry that his right to vote is being taken away from him, rather than being considered as his desire.
Therefore, he simply leaves for another person — who views sex as a union of equal partners, is considered a lover and is ready to accept his point of view.
– you tell him how to do it
He hasn’t even had a chance to touch you yet, and you’re already telling him what he needs to do. He was just trying to hit you, and then he heard a voice command “forward, headlights”, etc.
When this happens, a man is completely at a loss. He intervenes unexpectedly, with his route map, his coordinates, his GPS navigator, if you will, and here the woman is thin (and for men, more than thin). General! Then the woman begins to dictate all his steps, imposing a behavioral algorithm. The program malfunctions, and the penis is the first to react. Then he votes against it. Or imperceptibly—in this case, it”s almost the same thing.
At least listen to him a little. When you direct all his actions in the direction necessary for universal bliss, don”t think he”ll simply huff, puff, and wait.
He doesn”t think that fast. During sex, his brain is very preoccupied with the reproductive importance of offspring (at least that”s how nature works), and a man can”t always match you in terms of intellect. By the way, women are more flexible, intelligent, and inventive. But let this be your secret arsenal. And in bed—well, let it be your main one!
Read also: 7 Stereotypes That Negatively Affect Sexual Desire
Sex is an important aspect of human life. Even if people don”t have sex, they talk about it, think about it, and see sex in ads and movies, among other things.
And if you really want to tell him what you want from him sexually, say it before you get into bed. As the saying goes, the spoon is the way to dinner, not when the feast is already at its height.
– you criticize everything he does
Nothing kills sexual desire like criticism at every stage. He hasn”t even had a chance to do it yet, and you”re already unhappy. Kissing, touching, the way he undresses you—you”re not happy with anything. Are you truly unhappy with this, or is this your model of sexual behavior?
This model is very wrong. It achieves nothing. What you can expect: a club member, a depressed partner, a spoiled evening (or evenings). Think about it: if he bothers you so much, if he”s so uncomfortable for you, why are you in a relationship with him? What does that kind of sex give you? It”s unlikely anyone enjoys it.
If you like him, try to tame your demons of criticism and sarcasm. The more you praise a man, the more you”ll experience with him in bed. And vice versa: the more criticism, the worse his potency. By the way, with another woman, his penis will be perfectly fine—after all, she says it”s the best.
Reasons why a man loses sexual desire for his woman. Ruslan Narushevich
– you nag him
This is a terrible word, a terrible, terrible feeling — when a person understands: no matter what he does, he will always be to blame. He is not always wrong, he is not always wrong, there are no excuses.
Do you really think that every step and every movement — no matter inside the body in general and in your body in particular — should be accompanied by your critical remarks?
An ordinary person in this case completely loses his strength. His inner self and outward signs of being male are frightened by the thought that now you will begin to notice this.
Such alignment may not affect potency in only one case. When the mistress-slave pair comes together. However, this is different, and Mainline Marauders are much less common than regular ones. If you want to not only dominate, but also humiliate your partner, look for a special lover. Because usually — no matter how much he loves you — he won”t be able to tolerate it for long.
– you do everything yourself
And this applies to your entire life. Do you need a man at all?
If yes, leave him a green island of independence, at least in the form of a bed. When a busy, calm person (or with a short voice command “undress”, “sit down”, “lie down”, etc.) gets a partner, he feels like one of the trained domestic animals trained for sex. Basically, we”re talking about vibrators.
Of course, women are different — including women with a steely character, without which it is difficult to survive in our lives. And in many cases, a businessman in bed is not only a person who continues to exist within the established model, but also a person who unconsciously restores himself, resisting climbing the career ladder.
Don”t do this. Make it at least large, even if you are a soft cat with a titanium frame and sharp claws. Or write your intimate plot so that he has a completely ready-made role. He should be a participant, not an instrument of orgasm. This is because it will not last long. He simply loses himself in his desire for you.
