Hypersexuality in men: sexaholism in action
Men do not recognize sexaholism as a problem. Women and girls act as trophies, numbers and importance to their partners. Male hypersexuality is recognized as a medical condition.
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What is it and how to determine it?
Increased sexual needs and capabilities are qualities of men with a stronger sexual constitution. If this is not a medical condition, but a healthy sign of sexuality, then such men have an active and rich sex life.
All this can be achieved in marriage if a wise woman meets her husband halfway. Naturally, if there is a constant headache, mistresses appear. And they will definitely be pleased with the young man’s enthusiasm. There are three types of hypersexuality
- Psychological. Simply put, because the “bearded gray haired ribbed devil” is typical for men over 45 years of age. As old age approaches, they try to make up for everything lost.
- Physiological. Puberty leaves its mark. Hormone levels in young men are off the charts. A large amount of testosterone leads to hypersexuality. With age, everything returns to normal.
“For a long time I was treated by psychologists, sexologists and other specialists. Because of this, I lost my family. Everything was fine with my wife until she began to reject me, and I became furious. I didn’t even try to hide it, she left with the children after a month of such a life. For several years, almost 200 girls did not enjoy life and sex.
Signs of pathological hypersexuality
Do not confuse a man”s active sex life, healthy attractiveness and excessive sexuality. There are several characteristics that help determine the latter:
- Uncontrollable behavior during excitement. If he wants to have sex, you can”t stop him. Inability to become distracted or switch from one type of distraction to another.
- Unplanned dreams as a result of endless fantasies of pornographic content.
- Excitement arises from just touching a girl.
- The desire to possess every girl.
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Have you ever thought that you or your partner might be overly interested in sex? The term “sexy” is often used.
This is not promiscuity, but a pathological disease. Men should consult a specialist and undergo a series of procedures.
I first became aware of this problem when I was 23 years old. I counted over 100 sexual partners. He dropped out of school to pick up girls in clubs. I look back on my life and regret the time I wasted. I still remember this feeling: strong excitement, a desire to have fun and a lack of emotional release.
Causes of psychological hypersexuality
All psychological problems come from childhood. Dislike”, “disgust” and similar symptoms greatly influence the sexual development of adolescents. Men carry trauma into adulthood.
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Psychological factors put pressure on them. They do not know how to love and may confuse excitement with manifestations of love. They are convinced that no one else can love them. If they enter into a sick relationship, they prove their love by the frequency of sexual intercourse.
The need for obsession also plays a role in the formation of male hypersexuality. However, this does not make the situation any easier. Over time, the need increases, but still cannot be satisfied. Even an inappropriate atmosphere gradually develops into general admiration in bed.
Addiction or Gift
It is foolish to perceive high sexuality as something positive. There is still not a single man who would not agree that this gives him pleasure. Sexual hunger is growing, and it is impossible to extinguish it. Pathological height is considered to be a person’s dependence on alcohol or nicotine.
Degradation of a person as an individual, emotional changes, increased dependence, decreased self-criticism — all these are the consequences of sexualization. It is important to start working with a professional as soon as possible. Psychotherapy, psychoanalysis, work with sexologists — all this can help change your life and establish a healthy sex life. Internal changes and recovery should not take more than a month or a year.
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