What does first anal sex feel like?
First anal sex—what does it feel like? Do expectations often match reality? Does practice make everything better? Five women who once decided to experiment sexually outside of anal sex, once and for all, answered us anonymously.
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Does it hurt?
Miss A: “It”s actually quite painful, so be prepared. Use plenty of lube to make it easier. I was with my ex for the first time. He said, and they said, “We”re doing it with all our souls, so no lube is needed (my eyes rolled back here).” Of course, that”s nonsense, and we need lube.”
Miss B: “It”s uncomfortable sometimes, but I don”t call it pain. All my partners have been very attentive and listened to me, so I”ve never experienced pain. However, if you have a large penis, things may be different.”
Miss C: “It does hurt. For the first time, the thought that it wouldn”t fit in there kept running through my head. Of course, you need to relax. Take lots of deep breaths, and you”ll be fine. When you relax, the pain goes away, but then the person starts moving, and the pain comes back. I”ve read that inserting a butt plug during foreplay helps, but I haven”t tried it.”
Miss D: “Of course!” If it weren”t for the pain, I wouldn”t have even started this topic.”
Miss E: “The first few times it was very painful. Now? Now I don”t feel any pain at all, everything is fine.”
Why all this?
Miss A: “From my own experience, I can say that it”s done more for the man”s pleasure. He gets a tighter opening—forgive the explanation—and the woman gets gentle stimulation in a different area. If done correctly, it creates a pleasant sensation.”
Miss B: “In my case, anal play helps enhance orgasm. When I first tried anal beads, I was surprised by how much they heightened the sensations during climax. Traffic jams and life—the human penis behaves the same way. The orgasms I experience during anal stimulation are much more intense than usual.”
Miss S: “I decided to try anal sex. I heard that it is very nice, and some girls can even make a career out of it. Plus the fact that anal sex is considered taboo, something “dirty”, makes me excited. So I decided to give anal sex a chance.”
Miss D: “I usually only have anal sex when I’m drunk and surprise the lucky ones who accidentally end up in the same bed with me.”
Miss E: “I have the impression that anal sex is a kind of taboo. And when you have sex in that mood, anyway, it becomes more elevated and not comparable to regular, everyday sex. But for me, anal was not the highlight of the program. It is a nice addition, as it should be. Usually this happens in the last five minutes of sex, 20-30 minutes after the main action. After anal sex, it”s all over. That”s because when you orgasm achieved, nothing more is needed. That”s how good anal sex is!”
Who wanted it more—you or him?
Miss A: “That man, my ex, was definitely the initiator. In fact, I came to his house after a long time apart. Everything was in candles, etc. Such a surprise.”
Miss B: “My boyfriend talked me into it. Now I”m already married, I have a husband, and I take the initiative just as often.”
Miss S: “Yes. I heard that some girls like it and wanted to try it. However, the guy I just met is not a fan of anal sex. For this reason, I only tried it three times.”
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Miss D: “He. Anal sex happens when I give in. It all depends on how much I like the guy. And now I feel like this man owes me something.”
Miss E: “I”ve done it with some guys, it”s always a mutual desire.”
What was your first time like?
Miss A: “It hurts. But there is lubrication. I felt my anus stretching, it was very unpleasant.”
Miss B: “I think it can be very painful for less attentive lovers or if they are uncomfortable expressing their needs in bed. We moved very slowly the first time and were given the opportunity to get used to the new sensations. And as I got used to it, I began to ask the person to speed up and move more aggressively.”
Miss S: “It”s weird. Everything is very tight and uncomfortable. It”s like muscle cramps. It”s like you want to relax and stretch the muscles, but they won”t listen. This is the first time. I didn”t like it. The more you relax, the better.”
Miss D: “It was very uncomfortable at first. Do you feel it? It”s like the penis is being pushed into the anus, that”s how it feels.”
Miss E: “For the first time, anal sex feels like an unpleasant medical procedure.”
And how is it now?
Miss A: “It gets better over time. The main difficulty is that it is very difficult to relax. Eventually the whole body is compressed, including the butt area. This makes everything worse. Because at that moment the penis is inserted into you.”
Miss B: “We no longer have to take things slow the first time. Now anal play is part of our normal sexual routine. And I really enjoy masturbating to porn in anal sex scenes. It starts both the process and the thinking about it.”
Miss S: “Fullness. Very strong.”
Miss D: “You get used to it over time. Just like vaginal sex, I guess.”
Miss E: “Now I already know what to expect and how to enjoy it. And you are no longer tense or nervous, so there is less pain. Of course, this only applies if the previous time was successful.
Does it really feel good?
Miss A: “It becomes enjoyable after a while. Just relax, use plenty of lube and use clitoral stimulation.”
Miss B: “Of course, God! Otherwise I wouldn’t continue doing this!”
My first time/how was it? My story
Miss D: “It”s never really comfortable. Over time you just get used to it. Well, it depends on how much manhood you have.”
Miss E: “Yes! Anal sex is truly comfortable when you are with a man who can control the speed and intensity. Well, you need to combine this with stimulation of the vaginal and pubic chain, then it will be good.”
Is downstairs hair removal important?
Miss A: “Well, if his mouth gets anywhere, it might be confusing!”
Miss B: “I”m in a long-term relationship. My man and I sometimes help each other get rid of hair. If you decide to take this seriously, you can get rid of your hair there, I believe.”
Miss S: “I don”t think you need to worry about that. I did a Brazilian wax at the beginning of our relationship, and now I rarely do it for him. But if she”s worried about it, then get a full wax and feel more comfortable.”
Miss D: “No, it doesn’t matter. I think if the anus is not smooth, those who like the anus will survive.”
Miss E: “I don”t think guys are really expecting you to have no hair. If he”s having anal sex with you, I don”t think he”ll mind a little natural tool there.”
At what stage in a relationship can you move on to anal sex?
Miss A: “We tested it after six months. But basically, I don”t know how normal it should be because we were de-fallen.”
Miss B: “With the man who is now my husband, it happened on the first night — that”s the most I”m not like! With him, everything was “like then”. And we”ve been together for seven years now. When you”re ready to openly discuss sex, move on to anal sex. Even if you”ve prepared properly, “incidents” can still happen. So you need to be in a relationship where such “incidents” don”t seem like a disaster.”
Miss S: “I dated him for seven months. But I know girls who are ready for anal sex with a guy on the first night. But these are usually girls like that.
Miss D: “Hmmm. From my own experience I can say that if a guy loves you, it becomes clear very quickly. Such fetishes are usually difficult to hide.
Miss E: “Probably six months. Since you have already learned most sexual practices and are comfortable with each other, you are ready to become even closer.”
And what about the “cleaning up” process afterwards?
Miss A: “Most of the time there is no problem because we did it in the shower. There was no feces, no blood. Just semen.”
Miss B: “If you feel like you need to defecate immediately, there won”t be anal sex. Otherwise, it”ll be enough to hit you in the shower.”
Miss S: “Yes, there is no problem with that. Especially if you have a condom. Just take it off and that”s it.”
