Who should be on top — a man or a girl?
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Does it happen that a partner changes position only because of decreased sensitivity? What about control? Discuss the benefits of the rider position in the article and suggest figuring out who should be on top there.
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Mini interview
In order to provide accurate answers to our questions, we conducted a survey among men (M) and women (F) to find out what they thought about the riding position. We present the results of this mini-study.
M: “Actually, it all depends on the girl and her mood. I prefer the girl to come on top, but she should know what she is doing. My best sex was with a tall, thin girl who knew how to work her hips well. I will never forget her.”
M: “In my opinion, it”s better to come from below. I like slow and gentle sex in the missionary position. When she hugs me and puts her legs on my neck, I get incredibly turned on.”
J: “It depends on how close I am to orgasm. When I”m on top, I can control my pleasure. But sometimes I get tired and have a hard time adjusting the depth of penetration. I just want to relax.”
M: “The current girl I”ve met is not very good on top. When she moves, I can”t get it deep enough. But she likes it, and I agree with her choice. But we switch places, and with one hand I fondle her breasts, and with the other I hold her wrist high above her head so that she cannot move. Often an element of BDSM is practiced when from below.”
M: “I like it when it comes from above. Her breasts are so fluffy. I grab her nipples with my lips and try to pull them in a little. It”s very cool.”
J: “I like to come from above. For me it is a form of monitoring the situation. I prefer to act rather than follow.”
M: “When you”re on top, you finish faster. Our partners have similar situations, so we constantly change. I prefer to go on top. I can control the depth of penetration and maintain eye contact with the girl.”
J: “I like it when I come on top. My boyfriend squeezes my breasts and kisses them. River sliders also have their advantages.
M: “Those on top have some control over the amount and degree of stimulation. Women, as a rule, get more pleasure from “grinding” (stimulation of the clitoris, pubic area), men — from friction (classic penetration). Of course, this is easier to do from above than from below.
In general, I prefer everything to come from the top. I like to dominate in bed and control the pleasure. I get more than pleasure when a girl in the river crawler position registers in this position.”
W: “I think you need to find the right person with whom you can practice your sexual position. This is the only way to explore yourselves and discover true pleasure in each other.”
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M: “I prefer him to be on top most of the time. I like dominant women who know how to handle their dicks.”
J: “I always try to be on top, figuratively and literally. I like to dominate in bed. Plus, it”s usually difficult to finish. So being on top allows me to choose the angle I like and finish quickly when necessary.”
M: “I love it when my wife cums. It’s aesthetically pleasing for both of us. Over the years, I’ve learned so many tricks and our sex has become simply unforgettable.”
What are the results? There is no clear answer to this question. Both men and women prefer to dominate and control mutual pleasure. The choice of position directly depends on the degree of sensitivity and personal preferences. Thus, it is better to occupy the situation at the top by those who really like him.
The best positions for the one on top
Cowgirl” (she is a “cowgirl”) is considered one of the most favorite sexual positions for men. Being on top gives him complete control over the rhythm and speed of his sexuality. In some cases, this position increases the chances of achieving orgasm. It is a win-win for both partners.
Classic cowgirl
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The man lies on his back, and the girl sits on top, imitating the position of “riding a horse.” The girl holds tightly to the man”s legs and feet. Partners can lean back or forward, controlling the depth of G penetration and the depth of direct stimulation.
Cowgirl squatting
The pose is similar to the classic version, but only when performing it, the partner lowers himself from a squat onto the partner’s hips. In this position, the man grabs the girl by the nose and can independently control the speed and movement.
Reverse Cowgirl
The girl lowers herself onto her partner’s hips and turns to face his feet. Start with a classic reverse cowgirl, then lean all the way back with your back pressed against the man”s chest. During penetration, it’s easy to grab the girl’s breasts and play with her clitoris.
The girl squats, and the man lifts her torso and supports her weight in his hands. This position provides deep penetration and powerful orgasm.
Sitting on a chair
Partners sit on chairs and keep their hips firmly on the seat at the edge. The girl sits on the man’s thigh with her face or back to him. The only disadvantage of this position is that the partner has to move her legs during penetration. This is not always convenient if the girl is short.
Don”t forget about oral sex from the top position. Sexologists say that this position enhances the couple”s intimate and emotional connection. Plus, it”s a great option for dominant guys and girls.
