BDSM culture: sweet pain and unforgettable pleasure
Girlfriends meet for evening tea to discuss the past week and share stories about men. Gradually we move on to the topic of love and intimate preferences. I love it when he kisses my neck and strokes my back during sex,” one of them smiles. “Oh, I love making love under the moonlight, when beautiful music plays and the stars shine,” shares another dreamily.
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The third friend declares enthusiastically. The interlocutor, who does not know a single woman in the BDSM culture, says: “Oh my God!” and changes the expression to be written.
What is BDSM?
BDSM culture has firmly entered the modern lexicon. Every year there are more and more supporters of “hard sex”. However, views on this type of sexual pleasure are divided into two camps. Some admire BDSM, others see it as an attempt to be “new and exciting.” On the Internet, BDSM culture stands for pain, dominance, sadism and masochism. Terrible words! In fact, this culture has nothing to do with the scene, but forced the embellishment of the legendary Baron Mar. BDSM is voluntarily submitted by one partner to another and is permeated with a psychological mood, sexual play and erotic fantasies. In the next article you will need to know more about BDSM and more.
Good until it hurts
In BDSM culture, passion, sexuality, pain and roughness are tenderly intertwined. Partners who practice this type of sexual play are very experienced in sexual games and calculate their tricks and influence on the other partner so as not to cause physical harm or discomfort to him. With controlled BDSM, sex is light, exciting and very hard, delivering a significant amount of pleasure to the couple. BDSM exercises include.
- Fastening arms and legs;
- Securing handcuffs, belts and other devices for hands and feet;
- Using gags, scarves and chains during sex.
- Controlled blows to the partner’s body and face; use of whips.
- Careful tearing (suffocation), forcing of body parts, especially nipples.
- Using other adult toys to enhance the sensation.
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These techniques, sex games and psychological attitudes enhance the partner”s sexual pleasure.
Stop words
For those who have never encountered BDSM culture in real life, sex games seem terribly inappropriate against the background of masochism, which is sex games against the backdrop of sado. In fact, this culture is literate and rationally constructed, despite the fact that its foundations are subordination, humiliation and dominance. Partners discuss the course of sexual games, available behavior and preliminary prohibition. In BDSM there are three stoppers — words used to control the process.
- “Green” — do not stop, as the traffic light announces “movement”!
- “Yellow” — warning: “Act more accurately!
- “Red color” sounds like a signal: “Stop!”
Thanks to these signs, the couple skillfully manages the process of sexual games, receiving supernatural pleasure and vivid emotions.
Misconceptions about BDSM
BDSM culture has many myths and irrational arguments.
- Perversion. Subcultures do not relate to carnal perversions. Infusing sexual scenes with notes of dominance and submission, couples embody bold erotic fantasies, increasing the excitement and pleasure of their mutual influence.
- Devil”s tricks. Rituals in which the bodies of partners are secured with chains, belts and ropes evoke many associations with blood sacrifice. Indeed, BDSM is seen as the voluntary surrender of the body into slavery with special romantic overtones.
- Leather overalls. With the sound of BDSM comes the image of a cat lady in a latex spacesuit with a giant demonic whip in her hand. The image is not very good. In fact, latex is not considered an essential part of BDSM clothing during sexual play.
- Punishment. In BDSM sex games there is no banal punishment with a whip or palm. This is not a way to humiliate a person, but part of an erotic fantasy designed to enhance the thrill and pleasure during sex. Spanking and smothering fill sex with stroking and caressing, biting kisses and intense, exciting sensations.
- Heaps of sexual paraphernalia. Some people believe that every self-respecting BDSM lover should have in his arsenal a red room, a set of whips, various chains, gags of various sizes and handcuffs. This opinion is wrong. Simple belts, ropes and suitable accessories for tying up limbs are enough to bring some BDSM flavor to your sex life.
BDSM sex culture is a great way to diversify your sex life and experience unforgettable emotional and physical pleasure.
