Rules for the perfect massage that will make a date even more erotic
Whether you want to apologize to your partner or go on a romantic date, I’ll show savvy readers the tricks and tricks that will make even the characters in 9 ½ Weeks jealous of your rendezvous. All you need is the ability to read and the desire to please your partner. We will tell you about the rules of an ideal massage.
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Theory
Basic massage techniques include light tapping, pressure, circular movements and pinching. You should start with moderate pressure, cool down your enthusiasm, finish with light movements and barely touch your partner’s skin. The ardent beginning helps to relax the muscles and make them more receptive to the more interesting phases of the massage that follow.
Don’t forget the neck, ears, kneecaps, palms and between the fingers. Most of the above areas have been unfairly neglected.
In addition to hands and special massagers, you can use lips, light feathers or long hair. Girls who prefer shorter haircuts, don’t be upset! Like a cat, you may rub your head against your partner. This little show pleases both.
- Be patient. Of course, a sexual massage is designed to stimulate both partners, but getting down to business too quickly can get boring. Try new things and increase your sexual desire.
- Try to create a relaxing environment. Everything is important – music and light soothe, smells soothe.
- Most types of “adult massage” require mutual trust between partners and a willingness to experiment. On the first date, only real gourmets will experience such pleasure.
- Both sides should be happy. If some techniques seem too complicated / too intimate, etc., postpone their use until better times. The person being massaged will feel your tension and stiffness, and as a result, no one will feel pleasure.
- If one or both of you are purists, be careful that you don’t have greasy sheets on your mind that night. Use towels.
- The oil or lotion should have a neutral or pleasant scent that you both enjoy. If your partner can’t stand rose/vanilla/coconut/chocolate scents, these scents should be avoided (even at an unexpected discount).
- If both partners are allergy-free and don’t have any scent preferences, a list of the most popular scents can be helpful. Sandalwood, ylang-ylang, vanilla, lavender, patchouli.
- The surface and position should be comfortable. Sure, your partner will appreciate your acrobatic skills, but they’re unlikely to be relaxed while sitting in a split position (especially if they haven’t learned how to sit in a split position before).
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Practice
- If your partner is lying down, start the massage from the neck and shoulders down the back (avoid actively massaging each vertebra unless you are a certified therapist), focusing on the buttocks, and then the glenoid cavity. Then move on to the ankles and feet. Many people are ticklish, but just as many have a fetish for feet and everything related to them.
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- Don’t forget the skin around the nipples (for both men and women), but approach these delicate areas with due gentleness.
Massage using your whole body, not just your fingers. Use your body weight (moderately, of course) to control the pressure and intensity of the massage.
- During the massage, lean toward your partner’s ear and whisper playful questions or indicate which part of their body you’re about to touch. Combined with a sensual massage, this can bring the recipient to ecstasy.
- A top-down massage is especially beneficial for men and women engaged in mental work. Light movements free partners from unnecessary thoughts and relax the entire body from head to toe.
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