What do modern women lack to be happy?
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In spring, the streets are filled with the scent of flowers, colorful blossoms, and the silhouettes of diverse women. Beautiful women have shed their winter uniforms, donned summer wardrobes, and provocatively marched across the city.
Each has their own unique look: love, fantasy, exhaustion, pride, isolation, disappointment (most often a frown).
Ask each one: “Is she happy?” – and the woman stumbles, blushes, and evades the answer. Rarely will anyone in the crowd confidently answer “yes.” But always, looking at the fairer sex, it seems as if something is missing for complete happiness and confidence.
Too much “melancholy,” “despondency,” or “gloom” is attached to their faces. Indeed, what do girls lack to be completely happy? A few more points. An Unreasonable Goal
Girls and women are used to setting and achieving the same goals. Yet, we discovered that they themselves don’t know why they do it. All beautiful women dream of the same thing from a young age: getting married and having children.
For some reason, none of them wants to wash their husband’s socks, scratch his back in the evenings, clean the house, drink tea with honey when he’s sick, or listen to their men’s daily chatter.
The goal is achieved, the couple is engaged, the wedding dress is on, the photos are taken. And what is this? Where is the dizzying euphoria? Nothing has changed: instead of the old routine, the kitchen, the laundry, and the grumpy faces of the parents—only the gloomy gaze of a handsome husband who snores loudly at night and forgets to close the bathroom door.
The same story happens with the birth of a sweet baby. The birth of a child fills the mind with happy thoughts of a charming little miracle arriving in a young family, sitting in a stroller adorned with lace and frills, strolling with contented parents.
Instead of a child in the photograph, these pleasant feelings are quickly shattered when a screaming, inattentive toddler, relentlessly demanding something, appears next to the exhausted mother. The child’s nerves are frayed, the mother is sleep-deprived. Where is the joy of motherhood?
So women expect something to make them happy, and experience disappointment.
The World Around a Man
A woman dreams of love and desires to possess her beloved man. It doesn’t matter whether he is her husband, lover, or just a current acquaintance. Women constantly think about him and try to please, delight, and win over their beloved.
They are so absorbed in their man that they completely forget about themselves and their inner world. This is how creative people forget about their own interesting activities and immerse themselves in the world of social networks or on the phone, waiting all day for news from a pleasant person.
Representatives of the fairer sex end up becoming uninteresting, boring and dull. They lack their own hobbies, to which they willingly devote their free time, in addition to sad or obsessive thoughts about men.
Interesting hobbies are very diverse: sports, dancing, art, cooking, poetry, collecting butterflies, tram tickets, writing dizzying memoirs.
Difficult thoughts and feelings
Women today don’t have it easy. They are used to giving weight to their thoughts, actions and lives. They are sensitive to criticism of male relatives and seek to challenge territories, viewpoints, and threats that demonstrate their power over children.
Women’s happiness does not bloom, 3 reasons
Girls are very touchy and picky towards men, fickle and picky with friends, vulnerable and impudent with their parents. Women are afraid of strict authorities, are dissatisfied with saleswomen in stores, expect rude statements and shouts, and tremble.
Laughter from the heart
A sense of humor is a source of mood and a sure weapon against stressful situations. Laughing out loud and from the heart is often inaccessible to modern women. Laughter helps destroy hostility, embarrassment, self-aggrandizement and tension in a situation.
A girl with a healthy sense of humor is a treasure of society; her face is often illuminated by a sincere, sparkling smile.
I myself
Most women never know how to be independent. They face life’s problems and helplessly open their arms and run to small children, other “adults” or men for help.
They raise their children themselves, scatter manifestations of self-sufficiency and at the same time seek help for every household trifle.
The modern woman goes from one extreme to the other. Her je lower rise to unknown heights of highly spiritual morality, cease to evoke normal human emotions and engage in rigid seething and self-development, which ultimately destroys their spontaneity and special charm.
Being yourself, lightness, positivity, a good sense of humor, enthusiasm for yourself and the world around you – this is the desired set of “bricks” on which you can build a woman’s happiness.
Women’s happiness (spathiphyllum) grows poorly, reasons
