What men are silent about: what can their home tell about their chosen one?
The type of home can tell a lot about a person’s relationship with the outside world. This story may be completely at odds with what the person communicates. This can be explained simply: it is easy to control your words and your appearance, but the appearance of a house is rather a spontaneous phenomenon that reveals all the hidden sides of a person. Therefore, it is recommended that you make every effort to get into a man’s hiding place before committing to a long-term relationship or marriage.
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Perfect order or total chaos. What’s worse?
The first thing that catches your eye when entering someone else’s house is cleanliness, order and the lack thereof. Unless, of course, there are other distractions in the form of voodoo altars or fuchsia wallpaper with portraits of Playboy beauties. Then cleanliness is of secondary importance. In any case, this is an important element that says a lot about a person.
There is no use wearing white gloves and looking for dust in cabinets. Also avoid socks hidden under the sofa. A little sloppiness among men in everyday affairs is normal. It is enough to wear slippers in the kitchen instead of chemical protective clothing. There is no gag reflex when visiting the toilet, and dirty socks do not lie on the dining table. Caught mold.
What do I need to worry about? When dirt is visible everywhere and you don’t even see any signs of fighting it. Especially if the man knew that a woman would come to him. This attitude says only one thing – he doesn’t care about the impression he makes.
Sterile cleanliness should also be a warning. If a man himself establishes such an ideal order, perhaps the presence of a woman will strain him. Of course, women are creatures who organize everything in the house, but confusion is not uncommon. Women love long hair, which regularly falls out and can spill makeup and glitter from evening dresses. Women love to have children and pets, which do not bring order to the house. You should think a hundred times before agreeing to a long-term relationship with such a man. If you do not have the desire to maintain perfect order in your home every day, it is better not to start relationships that go beyond friendship.
If it is not a man who cleans, then a question should immediately arise.
A broken tap is a bad omen
The next item on the list is assessing everyday skills and competencies. There is no need to check the quality of washing dishes or washing clothes. All these possibilities are subject to modern technology, and concentrating on this is a waste of time. However, a leaking faucet in the bathroom, a broken toilet drain, a shelf or a picture that has fallen from the wall should draw attention to it. Perhaps the Mises just don’t know how to hold a hammer, let alone a monkey wrench. If you can afford to call a specialist technician to fix your home, fear not. If finances do not allow this, all worries about maintaining the functionality of the home system will fall on the shoulders of fragile women.
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Bookcase, dumbbells and bicycle: what your hobbies tell you about
Hobbies are an important part of a person’s life and can tell a lot about him. If a person likes something, it certainly affects his home. He loves to read – bookshelves, knows how to play instruments – instruments not covered with a layer of dust, loves sports – traces of sports equipment are visible. You need to pay attention to all this and ask yourself the question: will it work out – is it possible to share his hobbies with a man? For example, not all women are ready to master rock climbing or spend a weekend away from their loved one.
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It is necessary to pay attention to the numerous attributes of a hobby. This often happens when a person “finds his business”, buys equipment and takes a few classes, then quits and looks for something new. This behavior speaks of infantilism, because people experience similar periods of tossing and searching during adolescence. At a later age, such behavior speaks only of one thing – the person has not matured.
A cozy nest for a son versus a bachelor’s home
A man can live with his parents, but he cannot be a “mama’s boy.” Alternatively, he may live in a separate home and be completely dependent on his mother for daily living. The next point to focus on is. In the first paragraph there was a question about caring hands organizing the house. So these could be my mother’s hands. But who voluntarily allowed your mother to come to your “bachelor” apartment to clean and wash your clothes? Therefore, you should look for indirect signs.
For example, a polished mirror and a thoughtful note in the hallway when a doctor’s appointment is scheduled, or a shopping list. When you get to the refrigerator, you will find a few complex dishes that men can prepare, but not all at once. Fresh flowers in pots usually indicate that the woman regularly visits the apartment and does not forget to water it. Tablecloths, napkins, neat curtains, washed windows – all this gives the interior a feminine touch.
Such an indirect presence of the mother in the apartment should be alarming for two reasons. A man can be completely dependent on her in everyday life – this is the first thing. Secondly, the fact that another woman becomes the mistress of this house can be very problematic. Moving a caring mother and making room for maneuver can be an overwhelming task.
