Female sexuality: interesting things about physiology, eroticism, sensuality
Perhaps no one will be shocked to learn that there are significant differences in the way women and men think, behave and react. First, women are more empathetic, while men are more analytical. When discussing personal problems, men tend to make quick decisions, while women like to discuss, try to understand the other person”s feelings and put suggestions on the back burner.
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Basically, women tend to look at people, problems and the world in general, while men tend to look at something specific. In a woman”s world, the emphasis is on emotions and relationships. In a man”s world, emotions and connections are seen as potential obstacles. Women are from Venus and men are from Mars. There are also significant differences between male and female sexuality. It”s no surprise that this emotional dichotomy extends to the bedroom, where women and men experience sexual activity and sexual desire very differently. For example, women are more interested in connections, or relationships, with other people, while men are more visually inclined. If a heterosexual man admires a woman, he is likely looking at her body and considering its potential use as a sexual partner. Heterosexual women, on the other hand, are more likely to admire the sound of a man”s voice, the fact that he pays attention to what she says, and think about his potential as a life partner. In other words, when it comes to sexual/romantic attraction, men tend to objectify body parts, while women tend to objectify relationships.
Physiology
Even the physiological arousal of women is different from that of men. In one study, men and women were shown films in which two gay men and two lesbians had sex. Their responses were measured subjectively and objectively. Heterosexual men showed higher levels of arousal towards women, both in the study and physically, and vice versa for homosexual men. The women”s answers were not significantly categorical. Indeed, two-thirds of women experienced strong subjective and objective arousal from both gay and lesbian pornography, regardless of the subjects” self-reported sexual orientation.
Other studies have shown that women”s sexual desire is more stable than men”s. In general, men are influenced by other people”s sexual body parts, while women are influenced by the context of what they see (i. e. relationships). Therefore, it is clear that men and women awaken in completely different ways and under the influence of completely different things. Women, unlike men, tend to objectify what they perceive as romantic relationships.
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Eroticism
The pornography industry is becoming increasingly aware of these differences between male and female arousal patterns. Accordingly, they actively produce new forms of relationship-oriented eroticism. And their efforts to create more and more eroticism are quite successful. Consider, for example, the poorly written but nevertheless very popular book Fifty Shades of Gray. As of mid-April, more than a year after its paperback release date, the book is still listed as one of the New York Times” top 25 books with two sequels. Overall, the trilogy has sold over 70 million copies worldwide. These books fit directly into a long tradition of stories about a naive girl”s infatuation with a savage villain who is somehow able to turn Lapsarion into a devoted husband and lover. The difference here, of course, is that in traditional love stories the sex scenes disappear. Subsequently, 50 shades of BDSM action awaits you in the Red Room of Pain. It is interesting to note that both reader feedback and anecdotal evidence suggest that what attracts most fans, mostly women, is not the book”s graphic depiction of sexual dominance, but rather the development of the relationship between the two main characters, especially Christians.
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And there are more and more such women
Of course, with 50 Shades and its many baptism of fire imitators, “milf porn” isn”t for all women. In fact, some women use highly objectified “hardcore” pornography in the same way that most men do. These women are genuinely seeking a sexual experience that allows them to calmly focus on the man (or woman) watching the pornography. And among them there are more women than initially thought. Indeed, research shows that a third of all female Internet users now use pornography, up sharply from 14% a year ago. Women”s growing interest in porn is opening up a much-needed and very healthy dialogue about female sexuality. Healthy women, although different from men, are deeply sexual beings, just like men. Women who are able to read about sexual activity, observe it, and express their thoughts and desires related to that activity spend the majority of their sex lives with their romantic partner. More importantly, many women find that these discussions are a great way to build trust in a relationship and create emotional intimacy. What women”s growing interest in women means for relationships in the long term is unclear. It is clear that human relationships are changing — thanks to the ever-increasing onslaught of technology — in ways that would have been unimaginable just a few years ago. We have already seen some positive results with women being more informed and willing to express their needs and desires. We are also seeing some negative consequences as the superficiality of intimate relationships between people increases and the number of people using “sexology” increases.
In many ways, relationships evolve in conjunction with technology. As always with evolution, those who adapt successfully can thrive, and those who don”t can.
