Level Up! How to understand that you have become a good lover
Where is the line between inexperienced girls and sophisticated, sexy women? How do you know if your sex education is successful?
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Would you check the box next to most of your items? Solid five!
- Don”t forget that you are who you are!
Altruism and self-sacrifice are only good as gameplay. Many girls are so focused on pleasing their partner that they completely forget that sex is an activity for two. You wear lace lingerie because you like the way you look in it, and you, of course, are not ready to endure a beautiful, but terribly uncomfortable set, so that God forbid the polka dots disappear from your panties. You try to please your lover, but you don’t bring him to orgasm.
- Don”t worry about your appearance
We are not saying that you need to stop going to Sugar, to the beauty salon, watch your weight and get pedicures. I don”t see anything extreme here. Most men are in visual images, whether you like it or not. They love your truth with their eyes. But those eyes are much more picky than you think. If you see stretch marks on the round Dad he loves, he won”t “fall”. Perfectly smooth skin is great, but a grown man who has sex and doesn”t see it on Pornhub knows full well that you won”t be perfect 24 hours a day. He doesn”t need that from you. This is what he really wants — for you to stop fucking yourself and him up and finally enjoy sex. This starts much more often with Brazilian hair loss and completely thin thighs.
- You calmly say what you don”t like
This point is directly related to the first point. You never tolerate pain, discomfort or downright bad sex. You are not afraid to hurt his tender feelings. In addition, you are not afraid to be alone — if a person is not ready to change, you easily part with him.
You have long learned to express your complaints in a soft but accessible form. You know you”re having a hard time understanding your boyfriend”s cues, so you”ll be clear and to the point with a little twist.
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- You talk calmly about what you like.
Do you want to find a way to give you the pleasure he already figures out, but settle for what you have now? Well, I don”t know. Life is too short (sex, sometimes), and you”re going to take everything on yourself. By the way, regarding the “little trick” from the previous point — you know how to present many of your requests in such a way that one might think he”s already figured it out. You talk about a dream you had and what he did to you, and sigh like crazy — no threats or accusations, just hints — but! — very accessible. You only see him with a man — and don”t see anything terrible in that. Besides, you don”t throw a tantrum when you see websites with certain content in your browser history. On the contrary, especially if you tell him, “I want this!” and you like videos tagged as:
- Contraception.
You”re a mature and sensible girl. You”re open to any experiment, but above all, you value safety. If a man yells and tries to manipulate you, you send him on an erotic journey.
- Experimenter.
You”re open to everything new, especially when it comes to sex. You”ve tried a lot and are always ready to add new dishes to your sexual menu. But! Don”t forget point 1: agree to experiment and don”t hold a man back because you truly want to. If a man wants to give you pleasure, never push him away or embrace him timidly. You accept, love, and cherish your body and are happy that your loved one treats it the same way. You engage in mutual caresses not “because you have to,” but because you find yourself talking about it out of your power over a man and an awareness of his pleasure.
- Skilled sexting.
This is what sex is all about. You know exactly from what angle you look best, so you can confidently share erotic photos with your man. And you know exactly what you shouldn”t send under any circumstances. And no amount of advice will work on you. Despite all your idleness, you still have certain personal boundaries, and no one can violate them.
- You call a shovel a shovel.
When talking about sex, you use normal language because you understand that obscene or downright ridiculous references to genitals have no place in the bedroom. And you certainly don”t blush at the word “penis.”
- Come to the Light Side.
Sex in the dark, sex in the light — in both cases you can be confident. And yet — this is important! — Calmly look at yourself in the mirror. You don”t pretend not to notice your shortcomings — you will correct some and accept and appreciate others. We repeat again and again: until you love and accept your body, you cannot expect to be a good lover.
Becoming ideal love — training on harmonious relationships from sexologist Valeria Aginskaya Sex 18+.
