What is a decent girl? How do they behave and how to become like this?
This article is the reason for breaking the pattern. The Internet is full of carbon-copy themes of “worthy girls.” Reading them, one gets the impression that in order to have a “worthy” status, you need to be born into a secular society with a golden spoon in your mouth. Automatically, insulting the nearest hatsapovka has no right to claim the title of “worthy girl”. Therefore, the idea to protect and give hope to the pretty “Cinderella” did not arise by chance. At the same time, it makes a small contribution to the worldview of representatives of both camps.
Contents of the article:
- Gold of the female form
- Feminine nobility
- Loyalty
- Honor
- Comparative analysis
- By the way, about bonuses
- Housekeeping
- Respect for your partner
- Respect for your partner”s environment
- Sensitivity
- Generosity of feelings
- Sexuality
- Healthy Ambitions
- Rear
- Couple”s health
- Loyalty
- A worthy girl is a muse of inspiration
Gold of the female form
The public unanimously believes that a worthy girl is a combination of beauty, heart, education, sense of style and lifestyle. Stereotypes imposed by various media resources have broken more than one fate. However, in pursuit of these images, people have forgotten about the very concept of dignity. Since time immemorial, however, the meaning has been completely different. The basic definition of human dignity included only three qualities: nobility, loyalty and honor. These characteristics are not gender specific. They belonged to both women and men. But since we are talking about the female half of humanity, it must be organized in this direction.
Feminine nobility
The female aristocracy has the same essence as the male one, but with a slightly different twist. This character trait is not inherent in everyone. This is absorbed from childhood. It is impossible to be born with a ready-made sign right away. The environment always has a strong influence on the formation of character. Female aristocracy is defined by behavior. It combines many models of behavior, but the following stand out most clearly: aggressiveness, stupidity, cruelty, gloominess, the presence of subtlety, and the ability to forgive. A noble girl will never allow herself to offend those who are initially weak, not only physically, but also of her own free will. She knows how to forgive and does not try to restore the meaning of life. She is aware of the mistakes of others and, in the event of a fatal mistake, simply lets the culprit go and does not destroy him morally. She knows how to delicately close the door to her life in front of those who have no place in her life. She knows how to create an atmosphere of confidence in everything that concerns her relationships with others. You can rely on her and be there for her. The noble girl is selfless and capable of very strong actions. Honesty is another axiom of a noble girl. But she understands perfectly well that honesty has no right to hurt other people. And from this follows another sign — golden silence. Can nobility exist by simply processing milk from the nearest village? You shouldn”t even think about it. The answer is obvious: possible! Moreover, among ordinary girls, from middle social strata, nobility takes a more pronounced form than among women from an aristocratic society. We are talking about compassion, generosity and other qualities that a person learns only when it is most often needed. Pompously handing a hot meal to a homeless person is not a sign of compassion. This is PR and it gets likes that stick to Instagram. However, hospice volunteering is different — it is a job that requires much more than just a few hours of work. Also, this class is generally not advertised. It is simply impossible to understand the need to help others in any other way. Of course, this is an example, but the point is clear.
Loyalty
Loyalty is the most important sign of a worthy person. Moreover, it is present in all areas of life, from friendship to principles. Loyalty is not always a symptom of an inflated personality. It is difficult to call a person disloyal if he violates social doctrine. This is especially true for change.
Special cases are not an indicator of fidelity. Accusations of disloyalty are always based on selfish manifestations of a person’s character. Therefore, as a rule, the concept of “treason” has no right to exist. Of course, everyone has their own opinion on this matter, but if you start digging deeper, you can destroy the stereotype without much stress. Loyalty must be manifested in a deeper understanding of this term: fidelity to words, actions, life principles and behavior patterns. Loyalty must be taught from an early age. Of course, parents should be the main teachers. However, society must also have a significant influence on the formation of this character trait. Does the concept of “loyalty” belong to any one layer of human society? No! Loyalty spans the entire hierarchy of human society.
Honor
Is the concept of “honor” foreign to women? No way! Honor is closely intertwined with nobility. These two signs have always been closely related and would not be possible without each other. A girl”s honor means her moral stability. No wonder they say: “Take care of your honor from an early age.” If you are already biased towards the female gender, then it is easy to see that the main quality is that fleeting relationships cannot be replaced.
In general, it is absurd to think that decent girls should be pure, that is, virgins. Partners are not allowed. However, the history of the relationship can shed light on the girls” honor. Chastity is too broad a concept to be limited to virginity.
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But pride — yes, it is an obligatory attribute of honor. A woman’s pride allows her to remain within the framework of not only her dignity. This helps maintain moral purity. Don”t confuse pride with arrogance. These are completely bipolar concepts. Pride is not only to blame for the lack of virginity. By the way, among women from “high society”, as a rule, pride, not arrogance, prevails. Modesty is also one of the signs of a girl”s honor. Shame is closely intertwined with it. These phenomena of a feminine nature greatly develop the girl’s instinct of self-preservation. Accordingly, they protect them from rash actions. By the way, these qualities are most developed in Cinderella. They are less influenced by modern society. This is understandable. Life in the outback is significantly different from life in big cities, where these qualities are more likely to destroy than to survive.
Comparative analysis
Based on the basic ideas, two layers of society can be compared. Imposed stereotypes are collapsing like a house of cards. If you look at a man and give him a choice, he will not want to have an Oxford-educated socialite next to him unless she has the qualities described in her character. Any sane man would prefer a naive girl to them. And this is a good bonus for her character, but it doesn’t matter to me whether she memorized “Eugene Onegin” or not.
By the way, about bonuses.
When we talk about female stagnation, we must not forget that we are talking not only about self-development. Absolutely all female skills and abilities should be mixed with the concept of a “worthy girl.”
Housekeeping
Of course, you don”t have to know how to knit socks. You can buy them, but cooking skills would be a good addition. Another plus for ordinary girls. Yes, you can”t classify girls from higher social classes as “incompetent”, but you can only tell a lobster from a lobster 99. 9%.
Respect for your partner
Respect for men is very important. This means that the girl respects the man as a whole person. She will always make sure that the man does not get upset because she did not fulfill some of his demands. The ability to listen to a man’s desires is extremely valuable. Of course, provided that they are reasonable. And the first place here belongs to “simple” girls. Women in big cities are non-negotiable. Most often they are indifferent to many things.
Respect for your partner”s environment
A smart girl never breaks her boyfriend”s friendship. She doesn”t care about them. The most she can expect from them is advice, provided it is asked for in the future. Moreover, she never gives preference to men when choosing between friends or herself. However, there are many situations when long-standing male friendships are destroyed precisely because of female intrigues.
Sensitivity
The mood can be transmitted to other people. The girl”s sensitivity allows her to feel as comfortable as possible in a crisis situation. Of course, when parting with their friends, men are unlikely to reach mutual understanding, but, on the contrary, appropriate behavior allows them to relax and forget about their problems in the arms of a girl.
Marinette and Chloe at the beauty contest.
Generosity of feelings
The key to a strong relationship is expressing your feelings towards people. When girls generously share them, men feel more confident. “Cold” women risk being left behind too soon, but this is not a “warm treat.” Men need expressions of love just as much as women, and loving words can energize them for a long time.
Sexuality
Some people confuse vulgarity with sexuality. And this is an unforgivable mistake. Modesty has already been discussed above as a guarantee of a girl’s moral purity. But this in no way extends to the expression of sexuality in a couple. Sexuality is a very broad concept. It includes many features. And a sweet, gentle creature in a village meadow with a goat on a string can look much sexier than a red FIFA convertible.
Healthy Ambitions
Even Khatsapetovka can achieve a certain status and authority. But in general, we are talking about both self-development and the desire to change your life. Of course, this is not interesting if the circle of communication is limited to new models of milking machines. However, the ability to continue the conversation on more complex topics suggests that the girl is not stupid. Some independence and financial independence are also great bonuses for ambition. They can do anything and make money. Thus, if a girl not only lies in a chamomile field, but also earns money herself by collecting it and handing it over to a collection point, she can safely be considered worthy.
Rear
They all get undermined sometimes. rHe”s not a machine. And the girl’s partnership qualities turn out to be very valuable qualities. It is not surprising that the expression “wife of a decabulist” was coined. A girl who can accept her lover”s flaws and mitigate the consequences is a very tasty cut.
Couple”s health
Sooner or later, every couple will face the problem of procreation. A woman”s wisdom is also related to the physical condition of both herself and her partner. One of these factors is investing in your health. There is no negligence.
Loyalty
It has already been mentioned. Loyalty to loved ones speaks of maturity. Moreover, this is a direct indication that the girl chose her. She is no longer looking for casual relationships. By the way, a believing girl does not have frivolous relationships at all. Just ask her about her past. And if the past relationship was long, then there is nothing to talk about.
A worthy girl is a muse of inspiration
A girl who can inspire men has a very high value in today”s society. If a person develops next to her, regardless of her pedigree, striving for something new in his personal plans. A man can go out next to a business woman and “bloom” next to the most ordinary girl.
Thus, we have come to a conclusion. Considering all of the above, we can safely assume that a worthy girl is not only a woman with a diploma from Moscow State University, but also a neighbor of the most ordinary girl. We see that dignity does not consist of her social strata, but only of the girl’s moral qualities. They are the ones men should rely on when they are faced with choosing a suitable match for themselves. Indeed, life itself puts everything in its place. And champion palms definitely belong only to those girls who have these characteristics. Thus the pattern is broken.
