Why did guys become like girls and lose their masculinity?
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Nowadays, many girls complain that guys have become like girls. Of course, you can blame young women themselves for the fact that they already look like men, but this does not make them more masculine. And yet, how did it happen that instead of strong heroes, we increasingly encounter gentlemen who look like wives?
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There is less and less manual labor left
Yes, this is one of the main reasons why male power began to disappear. Today, in everyday life and work, labor is automated. Even 30 years ago, if you compare life with everyday life, this is heaven and earth. Yes, in those days there were already washing machines, vacuum cleaners and other devices that made work easier at home. But that was not all. Washing machines — you had to throw the laundry in there, then take it out, rinse it and wring it out using the handle.
Yes, it was entirely women”s work, but men helped. The driver had not heard about it, but the owner did it all with his own hands using a screwdriver. Instead of braids and trimmers of all kinds, there were regular braids and no mini-harvesters were used. Everything was done by hand. Now technology is present at every step. Yes, even before, townspeople rarely used sickles and tractors.
But still there was more physical labor. And he was appreciated. Today, the highest-paid employees work for its manager. And even more — who they work for. And why strive to get somewhere with mechanics and watchmen, if these professions are paid ridiculously low? The kind of money they earn can easily be earned on a computer without leaving home.
So if physical labor disappears, and male strength is not so in demand, and there is no demand for it, then it disappears.
However, there are many examples when you can get money with your hands, for example, Later, complete special courses to become an electric locomotive driver? For what? You can purchase men”s clothing models. All sorts of things end up there, both subtle and normal. Tall and thin — like hangers, everything fits perfectly on them.
Who thinks this is an exaggeration? (For reference, these are modern astronauts). I answer: one out of 500, because young people do not know such a serious profession.
Cosmonauts are not called, but Bolya Moziev, Sergei Lazarev and Sergei Zverev are called immediately.
Computer
Another important role in turning a man into an aunt is played by the computer. Firstly, from a very early age, instead of kicking a ball in the yard or running a lot, as before, our boys try to spend every minute near the computer. Yes, there are a lot of educational programs and very necessary information, but our children are of the least interest in this.
Toys — pistols, shooting games, they not only cause serious harm to the body, but also dry out the child’s brain. Then a boy appears, looking exactly like the girl. But it doesn”t matter to them. Remember the heroes of Japanese cartoons. They all look very much like girls.
In addition to the fact that the computer is holding the monitor of a young minx, they attract people of different ages. Walking in the fresh air, making new acquaintances, communicating with loved ones, communicating with friends, mobile games, all this has been replaced by the computer. A person grows, and toys grow for him.
Moreover, in addition to toys, you can find a lot of activities for yourself on the Internet — virtual dating, clubs (groups), interests, free movies, whatever! Sit back on the couch and crunch on some chips. Of course, then the poor, the fat, the self-accusations appear, the charm fades, and the wit fades, but all this makes it easier for more and more users to immerse themselves in the Network.
If you need to find a job or start a business, this can also be done online. Indeed, you don”t have to go anywhere, you can run your business right from your room, which is very cool. Only insidious technology does not spare our health, but otherwise.
Women achieved equality
Why do others look like girls? And because our women have achieved equality and become the same as men. If a couple is struggling to decide to manage the family finances so that the girl becomes the head, then the partner has no choice but to become the “wife”. After all, a woman is completely deprived of all male obligations on his part.
Of course, she will soon regret it, but it will be too late to make a ready-made decision, not being responsible for finances and taking care of the family is very convenient. No headaches. And the “head of the family” will easily get used to this (and will become, I quote, a cut above).
Now that many landmarks are covered up, they say you can”t expect men to move on. Naturally! You always think you can do everything better. Maybe so, but give yourself a chance to learn how to be a man! Why berate him for all his mistakes, yell at him for every failure, and cynically remind him of every failure. Are you making things better with your woman? There”s nothing to brag about. Perhaps you should be wary, have you turned into Morenaia?
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Relationships between boys and girls are very complex stories with elements of lies, intrigue, passion, selfishness, and pure emotion. They”re not easy.
Where are the dads?
Very often, boys become men just like their wives because they didn”t have a father around. It”s worth noting that many children grow up without a father. Why does this happen?
Because about 30 years ago, having a baby without a husband was considered a grave sin. Sure, they didn”t burn anyone in a bet or win any prison cells. However, it was unfortunate for pregnant women not to have a stamp in their passports. So they stamped anyone who slept with each other even once.
Incidentally, there were no advertisements for protected sex either, so pregnancy was common. So they slept together, conceived, and gave birth to a child, but couldn”t live together. The parents divorced, and the children were left without a father. Today, the military theme, unrelated to the PROS, persists; condoms are sold everywhere and they teach how to protect themselves, but sexual relations begin very early.
So, there is no liability. However, there is criminal liability. And now girls must understand how old they are. After all, I pick up a girl from a man in a cafe and fly with her. But she”s not 18 yet. So what do you do? There are only two options: jail or the registry office. Of course, 99% of them rush to the registry office, register, and procreate there. As a result, the children are once again left fatherless.
They suffer without a father and a girl, but the boys look like their mothers. Who else should they look like? Is it good if there are role models nearby, if the young man is a strong man, and the mother lives far away from her parents? Of course, one could argue that after the war, there were almost no men, so the boys never grew up, there was no one to understand!
But after the war, male warriors became great authorities. Indisputable, unquestionable authority. Well. Remember the film “Stilyaga.” What was the opinion of public organizations of all kinds? Back then, a man with a braid could simply break like a twig. Now we have freedom in the world, so you can”t violate it on the street—men or women with you.
Army
Whatever you say, men like my wife after the army can be counted on one hand. But here, our boys don”t want to serve.
Yes, the army”s authority used to be too high. Just watch the old film (“Maksim Perepelitsa”), and, to your surprise, your eyes will pop out of your head. Previously, a man was considered inferior if he hadn”t served in the army. But then the Afghans came, then the Chechens, and mothers started getting zinc supplements. Our army “grandfather” tried, too.
Young men in the army became crippled, sometimes even to the point of death. And in many families where we had no fathers (as mentioned above), mothers stood up, and future boy warriors began to transform into the pinnacle of motherhood. They began to flee the army. It”s a shame, of course, that Nikita Prenyakov, for example, is all over the screen, but doesn”t he have the same in the army?
It”s clear that a man is “very sick,” and while he can run around in “big races” until he loses his pulse, playing “last hero,” a boy can”t. Can I refuse to join the Russian army in this sick “cruel game”? Don”t leave. Now, when the authority of the government is being restored in the army, we must hope that this aspect won”t affect our male femininity.
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A handsome male figure is in fashion
Some may notice that now, more than ever, beautiful, sculpted male figures are in fashion. And this seems completely at odds with our masculine femininity. How can you combine one cruelty and one feminine softness? But you can. How many muscles do those sweet boys in shiny covers have? Pumping up costs more. And now I don”t always want to emulate such boys. After all, often they only pump up their muscles, while their worldview remains feminine.
Nevertheless, to revive it, you need a truly beautiful body, a good trainer, a competent coach, and a balanced and proper diet. What man in the village of Vashki can afford that? Well, a village, a small town? But the country isn”t just Moscow. And who? Well, there are gyms, you can buy yourself some dumbbells. But what about trainers? What about food?
Here”s an example. One man decided to pump himself up. First he went to the gym. Basically, he worked with a trainer, ate according to a schedule, took some supplements, and his body had to grow. Then life changed (I decided to expand my business and got into debt), cash flows began to be replenished less regularly and less generously. The man tried to get out, but did not leave the class.
Now I worked out at home with dumbbells. To fuel my biceps, I searched the internet for some supplements. In general, from these “magic” supplements he suffered from liver damage, lost most of his kidneys and, most importantly, was destroyed like an airship. Now the doctors have forbidden him to do much physical activity; his heart may not be able to withstand it, and he will not have the patience to lose weight. Overall, you have to be careful with this biceps-triceps-triceps thing.
But there is also a main reason
And yet the main reason why guys have become like girls is that it is much easier. Yes, many problems can be solved easier.
What do young people (both girls and boys) want? Stay in the “gray” mass. Why is “gray” in quotes? Yes, because I don’t consider myself such, other ordinary people are classified as gray. Therefore, the guys want to be bright, unusual and shock others. But to stand out by being smart, you need to be at least that smart. This can be troublesome.
But you can just be unusual and stand out, you can”t change your mind, change your mind, get on your heels and now ask your questions, everyone is looking! And if you have come up with certain actions for yourself. Do you remember Gauguin Solntsev? Do you say “idiot”? Meanwhile, the idiot compensated for his apartment in Moscow with his actions. And not fragile. Thousands of Russian surgeons did not work, but he worked.
So, screw this honey now (where else should you put your brains), and after five years of study, and then an internship, when can you become such a Gauguin that you can receive “cuckoo tears” all your life? Moreover, under the slogan “And I am,” the same Gauguin can express any thought, and you see how he simply shakes his head. That”s why our boys look like girls.
Who are androgynes
By the way, when a boy is very similar to a girl and grows up, this similarity only intensifies, and androgynes are most likely ahead!
Frankly, androgyny isn”t the result of a particular upbringing or self-cultivation. It”s a malfunction in a person”s psychological system. For example, a person is born a boy and feels both a boy and a girl. They have a more subtle structure than other boys. It”s softer in nature and has an appearance that”s difficult to immediately classify as gender.
Such a person is extremely unhappy because they”re constantly struggling with themselves. At the same time, androgyny is natural. If they were born a man, they may act feminine, they may exhibit feminine traits, but sexually, they”re always drawn to women.
What to do?
After reading all these articles, it becomes clear that men aren”t always to blame for being so similar to their girlfriends. So what should we do? Sit around and pity the “child”?
Everyone has their own specific situation, but I can offer two pieces of advice. One for mothers: don”t raise a boy to be a girl! And second advice to wives: don”t try to win your man over by tying him down; let him be a real man.
