Why do some women only want money?
“All women want money” is a popular phrase that irritates both women and men. Representatives of the fairer sex are offended by greed and attempts to be materialists. On the contrary, men for the most part agree with these phrases, but are disappointed with this approach and attitude of women. But is it worth understanding what women want from men, and is it true that they only want money? Or is this phrase someone’s stupid invention.
Contents of the article:
Women — money, men — sex
“Your women are most interested in the thickness of your wallet.”
“And you both don”t want anything from us except sex.”
These are accusations and statements that lovers express to each other during quarrels. Men accuse women of commercialism, and women accuse men of consumerism. These offensive words have caused the separation of many lovers and married couples. It”s just that men and women react differently to these offensive words.
Men can quickly leave after a quarrel and forget about the accusations. Women, however, are complex and confusing people. She definitely needs to go through a process of self-reflection. She searches for a long time and scrupulously for the reasons why her lover said exactly that. What did she do to deserve such words? Then he runs to complain and even asks the opinion of his mother, sisters, girlfriend and work colleagues. Then he doesn’t calm down when he hears the meaningful “yes, he’s a goat, don’t listen to him, you’re not a goat.”
Perhaps the hurricane could have been somehow stopped, even if five minutes after the fight the lover had come running, knelt down and began to ask for forgiveness from the offended girl. But he did not do this, and in the near future the woman will persistently engage in self-education, self-flagellation and self-destruction.
“Dad works, and mom is beautiful”
Dad works, mom is beautiful” — this phrase from an anecdote has almost become a catchphrase. And this phrase can often be heard from women. However, in reality this could not be further from the truth. Today women work and earn as much as men. At the same time, representatives of the fairer sex, in addition to work, are involved in raising children and everyday life.
The girls took on the fragile shoulders and male responsibilities. Driving a car, managing subordinates, doing repairs in an apartment — previously only men could boast of this. And today women have learned to cope without the help of men, easily mastering new skills and abilities.
The man is the breadwinner
Since ancient times, man has been considered a hunter and breadwinner. He is responsible for the material aspects of life. And women raise children at the hearth. This stereotype still exists in society. Judge for yourself what parents say to their young sons. You shouldn”t cry; you are not a parent. You are their future guardian and breadwinner.”
But girls can cry and be popular on a whim. But how else? After all, she must be vulnerable and defenseless. The main thing is that she is beautiful and knows how to achieve with her beauty what she needs from men.
And only a small percentage of families try to explain to their children from childhood what equality means to them. And explain that in fact, in this life, neither men nor women owe each other anything. And any relationship should be built on equality, partnership and voluntary desire.
“If you are a real man, you can get money”
Unfortunately, this is not a phrase from a second-rate movie, but a real-life situation. This kind of girl still wants money from men. Well, her mom told her she was a princess. So, pleasing him, the princess chooses him and gives him money for her needs.
And it doesn’t matter that a person works from morning to evening at three different jobs. If he is a real man, he should know how to win them over. At the same time, time must find the princess. After all, she needs to go somewhere wearing new clothes and jewelry.
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I was far from my contemporaries when I came up with the idea of stopping a galloping horse. So why don”t girls, like men, just today.
“Not for Senka’s hat”
I always wanted a successful man next to me. I met my husband at work in a bank. He was then head of the analytical department, and I had just gotten this job. We fell in love, got married, and problems began. My career took off, but my husband first took one position and then was fired, usually for a big mistake. I had to put everything together — family, life, mortgage — everything myself. But I am a woman, I wanted care, attention and gifts. At first I tried to support and encourage her husband, but I realized that it was difficult for me. Especially if I asked him to find a job, it was difficult for us. He started yelling at me like crazy and told me that nothing was good enough for me.
This way she spent less money on all kinds of procedures and could dress in chain stores. And I have a status, a position at work. My work required me to keep my eyes peeled. It became difficult for us, I became more and more immersed in work, and he found solace in the arms of a former classmate. And, as I was told, I learned from my friend the general. Because I always asked him for money. What can you say? Yes, she demanded, but not for her own sake. It”s somehow insulting.”
The heroine of this story cannot be accused of commercial activity. She needed a man”s support. But her husband did not act like a gentleman. He not only left her with all the problems, but also told everyone about her business. And in the end, it is not the greed of women, not tens, hundreds or even thousands, but millions who are trying to cover up their failures.
Women only want money
“Ask men for money”
Psychologists say that women are obliged to take money from men. In fact, some girls are ashamed to take money from men for their upbringing. It is claimed that it is vulgar and ugly. Only this can develop into a bad habit. Future men may get used to the fact that they give you money not only for you, but also for maintaining the house and raising children.
Regardless of who you are, wife, girlfriend, lover, being in an intimate relationship allows you to count on gifts and expenses from him. Even if you only see him a few times a month for sex. Teach him to pay for pleasure. Therefore, the more a man organizes and spends, the more important he becomes.
Man+woman=money
As you can imagine, not all women are commercial. Most women still desire love. Therefore, men can breathe easy and expect sincere and genuine love!
But if you”re still afraid of making a mistake, here are seven signs of a commercial woman that will help you understand her:
- All her conversations revolve around the topic of designer items. The first thing she decides and reveals about a gift is whether the item is from a designer or not.
- She prefers to meet in expensive restaurants. Such a girl wouldn”t agree to meet at McDonald”s. It”s beneath her dignity. Only the best restaurants. Be careful what you order. Commercial girls choose the most expensive dishes and drinks.
- A commercial woman spends all her time on her appearance, so she has no time to read and expand her horizons. There”s little to talk about with her other than fashion shows.
- Wealth hunters use all sorts of unimaginable methods to find out information about your wealth. The thickness of your wallet is the only thing of interest.
- The age difference doesn”t bother her at all. If you”re well over 40 and she”s 20, that”s cause for concern: “I”m not sure I”m ready for this, I”m not sure I”m ready for this.” And what do you have in common with this young beauty? Perhaps only a love of money.
- State hunters are not shy about telling men about their financial difficulties. Moreover, if a second date is planned and the girl is looking for financial support, this should be a “wake-up call” for you.
- You You won”t receive warmth and affection from her. Commercial women simply don”t know how to do this—give care. They can only receive.
Just a note.
Attention women: be self-assured, successful, and self-confident, but make yourself vulnerable and unprotected. A vulnerable woman needs to be protected, appreciated, and invested in. Conversely, the more you show a man your independence and self-reliance, the less he”ll be willing to spend money on you. What does this mean to you? After all, you already have everything, and you can buy everything for yourself. Kill the root vegetable!
Note to men: Yes, some women only want money. But not all. Most women want men. Not just sex. And men who love women and are willing to take action and give generous gifts.
And the phrase “women only need money from men” is an invention and delusion of representatives of the stronger sex who have failed in this life. They have nothing to offer women. Neither charisma, nor charm, nor attractiveness, nor intelligence, nor external gloss, only the failures of the female gender describe the requirements of female Merc soldiers.
Men usually like to give women money. A woman’s appearance is a man’s calling card! But if your beloved’s demands are growing every day, and no matter how much you earn, it’s not enough for her, this is simply not your woman.
