Talking during sex
Remember that all bliss starts in the head. If you start telling her where you are going to touch her, she will have time to imagine it, and by the time your hand touches her body, she will be trembling with excitement. Remember to avoid important places like the breasts and vagina during foreplay. This will excite her even more and even prompt you to go a little further.
Make your first moves in a public place
It goes without saying that foreplay should take place in the bedroom or within the four walls of your apartment. If you’re out and about together, you can try to encourage her to have sex. Of course, it doesn’t have to be exactly like the bedroom. It should be more subtle, but bold enough to let your woman know where you’re headed. When you’re sitting in a restaurant, you can massage her leg under the table. You can also lightly spank her butt, but not in a chauvinistic way. You can kiss her on the lips or grab her by the waist and pull her toward you. These seemingly innocent actions will cause a sharp increase in sexual desire.
Give her a little striptease
Today, a lot has changed. Taking off clothes to erotic music and proper body movements is not considered the prerogative of women. You’ve probably heard that strippers are becoming increasingly common at bachelorette parties, whose job it is to stimulate a dozen women. Give your loved one an erotic show. Of course, it’s not about installing a pipe in the bedroom right away. Start with a shirt—preferably a button-down—unbuttoning one button at a time, gently wiggling your hands. Using both hands, slide your pants down your hips, hooking your thumbs under each side. If you’re wearing boxers, you can give a pretty hard slap. Without touching your partner, you’ll surely make her want to pounce on you.
Use your fingers and mouth
Every woman is different, and they all like to be touched differently. However, hopefully, the same techniques you learned in school are still applicable today. Place your hand on her vagina and rub her outer labia with your fingertips, spreading them outward and then squeezing them again. Massage them gently. When she spreads her legs, it means she wants you to touch her a little deeper. At this point, you can begin massaging her inner labia and then move on to her clitoris, massaging it with circular motions.
Some women prefer you to treat this part of their body gently, while others prefer it a little more harshly. Read her body movements and the sounds she makes to find out which group your partner belongs to. The next step is to move your lips to the area you’ve already prepared a bit. Lightly stroke the clitoris, and then try sucking it. During this time, you can touch her hips and breasts.
Watch an erotic movie together
Porn can be a good idea to set the mood if your girlfriend enjoys watching these types of films. Choose a movie that both you and she enjoy. It can’t be your typical man-porn. Remember that casual touching here and there while watching is completely permitted. Pause the movie occasionally to kiss and play with your bodies. Remember, your focus should be on your partner, not the movie. If you’ve been dreaming of more kinky sex, choose a movie with a similar theme. While watching, you’ll be able to see your partner’s reaction and literally let her know what you want to do with her.
Tips
* As you can see, foreplay isn’t that difficult, and in fact, it can be as fun as your partner. Try any of the methods I’ve suggested, and you’ll find out what your partner enjoys most and what can best prepare her for great sex. Remember one rule: all women are different.
