5 Types of People Mistakenly Called Sexaholics
Doctors avoid a precise definition of sexaholism. It is only known that such a name is not in the International Classification of Diseases.
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Still, I would like to know what sexaholics are called, if only to know who they are and to understand whether you belong to this group. At the same time, make sure that you do not belong to any other groups that are often confused with sexaholics.
Who are sexaholics
Obsession with sex occurs in 5% of the world”s inhabitants. For these people, alcohol is just as necessary as for alcoholics. Even shopaholics can resist the addiction of buying unnecessary things and spending them on sales for some time, but sexaholics cannot live without sex.
For sexaholics, eye and hair color, height, weight and age do not matter when it comes to sexual relations with a partner. The main thing is to have an orgasm. Even gender may not matter, only the pleasure received. The more the addiction progresses, the more often a person needs sex. Like a drug.
Orgasm becomes the goal of life, and relationships with a sexual partner become short and easy. Sexual intercourse — without feelings and emotions. “I turned women into gloves” is a bold definition of a sexaholic. By the way, most people suffering from this addiction are men.
All of them are considered by sexaholics as a potential means of obtaining sexual pleasure. Making the situation worse is the need to constantly increase the dosage of this drug. This requires finding new partners and stronger stimulants and aphrodisiacs (toys, pornography, etc.).
Facts! Sexaholics use paid sexual services more often than representatives of other categories.
If you are socially disconnected and not interested in other aspects of life, you do not need a permanent sexual partner, but are only interested in the frequency of mating and your feelings — you are a sexaholic. When you’re young, you don’t think much about it, but as they age, such people become increasingly depressed.
5 types of people who are confused with sexaholics
The world of modern paraphilias is multifaceted and diverse. It can be difficult not only to identify deviations from the norm, but also to distinguish them from the norm — especially because it is very ambiguous. Without claiming scientific conclusions, we will briefly discuss other types of addictions. Then everyone will understand who he is.
In most cases, a sexaholic is incorrectly called
- Chronic masturbators;
- Porn addicts;
- Traitor;
- Fetishist
- People in polyamorous relationships.
The difficulty of accurately identifying them is that the descriptions and characteristics are almost identical. This applies to personal portraits, behavioral patterns and sexual stimuli.
Chronic onanists
Very rarely, these are just lazy, handsome men or beautiful women who do not want to find a partner. A classic chronic masturbator is a person who gets satisfaction only from self-stimulation of the genital area, perhaps using improvised products from a sex shop.
Often, to speed up the achievement of the desired result, various pornographic materials or objects (mainly underwear) that enhance sexual arousal are used.
Masturbation, when used in constant doses, like a drug, helps relieve tension. When masturbators abuse physical labor, instead of mental and physiological relaxation, they experience persistent depression and chronic stress. The reason for this is adrenaline.
This hormone is released into the blood from the adrenal glands during sexual arousal and is burned only during physical activity. In this case — during sexual intercourse. During manual masturbation, adrenaline does not go away, it remains and even accumulates. Therefore, chronic onanists can be distinguished by their nervous behavior.
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Intimate life is very important to us, it maintains our physical and mental health, maintains our self-confidence and enables us.
Porn addicts
Excessive and constant psychological stimulation to achieve sexual arousal develops pornography addiction. Simply put, preparation for sex is achieved not only through foreplay with a partner (not very much), but also through the process of watching pornography of all kinds.
What is the secret? If you”ve ever watched a pornographic movie (well, there”s been some), you”ve noticed the cast. All the women in pornographic videos are luxurious beauties, and all the men are just sex machines with huge penises and incredible potency.
People who constantly watch such videos subconsciously compare themselves and the actors with their own partners. As a result, large breasts on screen are much more arousing than breasts of a partner. And your own penis always looks smaller than the porn hero”s penis. And just like in the movies, the erection never lasts longer than an hour.
Pornography used to be called witty, but what are the health consequences of over-indulging in “funny pictures”? Psychological trauma, the main one of which is a feeling of inferiority. Slowly but surely, porn addicts are drawn into the virtual world and become deeply frustrated by the reality around them.
Cheaters
Walking to the left, jumping sideways — among people, the rebel has many names. Allegorical, funny, not very.
But an interesting detail: as for the male traitor, he wears this title with pride. It”s like a red flag passing by. And when a woman cheats, these are abusive and insulting words (and in the good old days they were written in tar on the gate).
Sexaholics and their vicious circle
It”s very simple. Thanks to prevailing stereotypes, let’s say, real men are not only breadwinners and warriors, but also constant conquerors of women. Even when they already exist and are legally developed. Therefore, the betrayal of men is sometimes turned a blind eye — what can be taken from men?
Why change? The most common answer is variety. Regular partners have become bored, they want novelty, fresh thrills (especially if they are under 40). Representatives of the stronger sex often say that they go to the left to check the vitality of a man.
Meanwhile, the harmful thesis that “a man is born to become the father of millions” puts many on a treacherous path, not in order to experience pleasure or amuse pride, but in order to compensate for complexes and assert themselves in front of others. It becomes a kind of trophy hunt.
Interestingly, cheating husbands rarely abandon their families — on the contrary, they value and protect them. Another thing is that not all wives can live at the main airfield, because it is known that there are many alternate airfields.
Fetishists
If you keep dried flowers in memory of the first time you met your girlfriend, then you are just a romantic lover. But if you acquired the unwashed panties of the object of your adoration, on a hook or by cunning, and you like to touch and even smell this underwear, you are a fetishist.
To be fair, it is worth noting that it is not only panties that are unexpected (although such underwear is in particular demand, making money from retail and textile sales in Japan). Men may get pleasure from seeing stockings, bras, women”s shoes, tubes of lipstick or hair clips.
Moreover, a real fetishist does not have to masturbate to his fetish — he can even have a lot of ejaculate from the sight and smell of the desired object.
Supporters of such paraphilias often combine their favorite activities with regular sex.
People in polyamorous relationships
In Soviet times, any sex with three or more people was called a Swedish family. In fact, when three disparate people live in a close-knit family and engage in sex as well as economics, the Swedish family, called SC, is a type of polyamory relationship in which three disparate people live in a close-knit family.
The main danger in anticipation of all participants in such unions is that the je cannot be repaid. She is one of the real emotional confirmations, whose presence, will and absence show a rather cool attitude towards her partner.
Another very inconvenient point is that the more people participate in polyamory, the more difficult the weaving of relationships becomes. It means that everyone should treat everyone equally, with equal responsibility and, most importantly, it is necessary to know everything about each partner. And, as psychologists say, this is life “without skin.”
There is no need to talk about psychological comfort here, since this is very difficult to achieve. There are no great polyamorous relationships, the long-lived ones are constantly leaving (after all, women want to have children from their fathers), and new people are appearing. Relationships break, are destroyed, and new ones take a long time to build.
According to experts, this is just an attempt to encounter new models of social and public relations. Time will tell how acceptable they are. So far these are in the minority.
