How to make your girlfriend feel good with your fingers and hands
If you thought you needed a penis to give your girlfriend amazing orgasms or to give her even more pleasure during sex, then you were sadly mistaken. There are many ways to surprise her and give her more pleasure without using a penis, such as using your hands.
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Be prepared to familiarize yourself with several ways to satisfy your chosen one.
Her orgasm is in your hands
Every woman is unique, and there is no universal way to please her based only on your knowledge. In order for her not to be disappointed in you as a lover, you need to spend a certain amount of time studying her physical characteristics and sexual preferences.
To make things easier, simply ask her questions and get specific answers about what she likes and what she doesn”t like in sex play. However, there are a few ways to experiment that may surprise both you and your partner.
- Slow start
When having sex, a man seems to enter into a certain type of woman who is trying to conquer a certain type, for which his orgasm is the main prize. And this is one of the main mistakes of males: they think that they can win a prize by being the first to experience an orgasm. Because for women it is not speed that is important, but the quality of love and its effectiveness.
Rushing her without giving her enough time to get aroused is unlikely to give her the impression that you want her more than she wants you. So forget about speed, take things slow and gradual, tease her and make her want you like she never wanted anyone else.
- Your tongue is your best friend
Cunnilingus combined with fingering is a great way to excite your partner. Oral caresses and soft penetration of fingers into the vagina will raise the level of arousal to the limit and, possibly, lead to orgasm even before using the penis for this purpose.
- Clitoral stimulation
Before you begin to penetrate a woman”s vagina with your fingers, you can play with the clitoris. Listen to her advice to avoid causing pain, because the clitoris is an important area of her body. Massage her clitoris, stroke it and insert it, but watch your partner”s reaction.
Imagine that the clitoris is a button in the world of pleasure, pressing which you will give her many amazing sensations.
As a rule, few men suspect the presence of a special point in a woman’s vagina. His stimulation not only gives her pleasure, but can also bring her to orgasm. You don”t need to use a penis, very sensitive fingers or knowledge of female anatomy to do this.
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The G spot is located approximately 3-5 centimeters from the entrance to the vagina on its front wall. Inspect it from the inside using your fingers and lightly press on different areas inside the vagina, looking for a very sensitive point.
However, it is worth monitoring the reaction to his behavior, no matter what he chooses. In the process of studying his internal genital organs, you can try to find “those” sensitive places, causing discomfort with too rough or sharp invasion.
- Breasts and sexual pleasure
The clitoris, G-spot, and nearby organs are the most sensitive areas on the female body. If you don”t believe me, try playing with your nipples. Touch them with your fingers, lightly rest your tongue on them and excite your partner.
But be careful with your teeth — they are not only sensitive, but also a rather painful place on a woman’s body. Be gentle, gentle and delicate with her breasts.
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- Toys are not just for children
To give your girlfriend pleasure, surprise her and give her new sensations, you can use sex toys. The choice will surprise you with the widest variety of sex. Vacuum vibrators, vibrators, vibrators, rollers, offspring with ejaculation function, she will be hooked on the surprises as well as how her body reacts to playing with him.
The good thing is that adult toys can be used to stimulate several sensitive areas of her body at once: the clitoris, G-spot, vagina and anus. And with professional fingers attached to the game, you definitely won”t leave it without an orgasm.
- Mandatory hygiene
When entering the world of sexual pleasures, one should not forget about hygiene. Hand cleanliness is a must. If you use your fingers to stimulate sensitive areas, always get your nails done or at least trim your nails.
If you do not take care of the cleanliness of your hands and instruments for sexual love, you can reap the fruits of carelessness in the form of bacterial infections, which subsequently become absolutely contagious from woman to man and become the basis for treatment and denial of physical pleasure for both partners.
In emergency situations, you can use antibacterial wipes and hand grips, and remember to treat adult toys with the same products used to stimulate arousal.
Don”t hesitate to lubricate your hand. This softens the sensations and relieves the partner of discomfort if he feels it.
- Listen to each other and enjoy
Both partners should not do anything they don”t like in bed. All actions performed by you or your chosen one must be performed only by mutual consent. Listen to each other and, most importantly, listen.
Don”t refuse what you say or ask in bed for fear of offending or alienating your partner. Both the speed of love, and its intensity, and behavior associated with physical contact of a sexual nature should please both partners and not cause discomfort.
