How to properly perform cunnilingus on a girl?
With an experienced partner, both can experience unforgettable sensations from cunnilingus. However, when an inexperienced woman is about to experience the pleasure of oral sex for the first time, it’s best to know how to lovingly care for her genitals and prepare her for this type of sex.
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A Little About Cunnilingus: What It Is and Why It Is Needed
The unenlightened portion of humanity today either doesn’t know what this is, or does—considering it indecent or unnecessary—saying that for our age and normal sex, the eyes are sufficient in the missionary position.
They are especially delighted by the obscene oral pleasures of female genitals. That is, touching them with the penis is decent, but with the tongue and lips (essentially the same as kissing) is complete release and moral corruption.
This dualism is accompanied by ancient cunnilingus. Even written monuments of Ancient Rus’ speak of the “disgusting pleasures of female shame.” Even then, they practiced this sexual technique, perfected it, and passed on the knowledge to their descendants—the emotionally charged wording was omitted.
We hope that you still belong to the enlightened majority, so there is nothing shocking in this. Moreover, if a person uses such oral sex in addition to traditional foreplay and intercourse, it serves as proof of true love.
Oral stimulation of the clitoris and other genitals can provide a woman with pleasure that is impossible with traditional sex involving direct genital contact.
This is because the penis touches the woman’s genitals and, to put it simply, its main purpose is to penetrate as quickly as possible, rather than circling the entrance. The tongue is more flexible in all respects, and skillful use allows for a variety of options.
Conclusion: cunnilingus should be performed for variety, to prove your feelings, and to overcome any insecurities (which all women have) about the man she loves.
What is necessary for proper cunnilingus
In this delicate matter, not only technique is important (without which nothing would work), but also the psychological component. A woman will achieve bliss only when she is completely ready for it, and nothing will prevent her from relaxing and surrendering to the surging emotions.
Let’s consider the ideal plan of action.
- A woman should be prepared for cunnilingus if this is her first time. If this is not her first time, believe me, you won’t have to persuade her for long. But only if you have done everything correctly from a technical standpoint. Many women find it psychologically difficult to deviate from their patterns.
A woman, also about the most beautiful, profound, and complex appearance. The biggest complex is the genitals. Most women are terrified of cunnilingus before their first time, convinced it’s the ugliest part of the body and smells a certain way.
You need to try to be convincing and eloquent to convince your partner that there’s nothing wrong with her, including her genitals. Tell her that you think you know how to kiss her clitoris and that you dream of giving her oral pleasure.
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- To make a woman relax, conversations should be accompanied by hugs and gentle touches—no violence, no rush! If she doesn’t allow you to undress, there’s a reason. You need to give her complete freedom of movement: she should want to be performed cunnilingus.
Speaking of clothing and nudity, during cunnilingus, men can touch the root area further with their hands, because some prefer to undress completely, while others, on the contrary, are aroused when only panties are removed for oral sex. It’s important to clarify these details first.
Much is based on the situation of both partners. It should be as comfortable as possible. The most common options are:
- The woman lies down, and the man lies down with his face over her genitals;
- The so-called 69 position involves mutual oral stimulation of the genitals. Both partners can lie on their sides or choose between being on top and bottom;
- If the woman wants to be actively involved, the ideal position is sitting over the man’s face: this allows for additional movement and delays or accelerates orgasm;
- The woman sits with her legs spread, and the man lies between them (for a more comfortable position on the floor, this should be arranged separately).
All other music, lighting, situations, and certain additional actions will have a stimulating effect on him, but without excessive effect. For example, a gentle full-body massage, without touching the sides, but with special aromatic gels, is suitable.
Classic cunnilingus and other variations
The classic cunnilingus technique is one in which the man uses his mouth only to touch the clitoris, labia, and vaginal opening. Other variations include:
- Touch the root area with your hand, stroke the body, caress the nipples, caress the skin of the abdomen and thighs, insert your fingers into the vagina, massage the G-spot, and insert them into the anus.
If this is your first time performing cunnilingus, it’s best to stick to the classics and leave it for later—an unbridled fantasy fueled by the miracle of technique. The main thing is for the woman to experience an orgasm and enjoy the sensations of oral sex.
You need to start from afar—in this case, from the pubic bone, gradually moving down to the area above the clitoris. When your partner is already highly aroused, touch the glans with your tongue before allowing any loving movements with the tongue on the part of the clitoris that is under the skin.
The labia majora, urethra, and vaginal opening (these areas are especially rich in nerve endings) provide pleasurable sensations. When the clitoris is involved, touch it with your tongue to tense or relax it. These techniques help your partner feel less tired and last longer.
For women who enjoy prolonged caresses, the “Victoria” cunnilingus technique is designed. The tongue avoids direct stimulation, gently tracing a V-shape along the lateral surface of the clitoral glans. However, you should be prepared for orgasm not to occur immediately with more vigorous movements.
When your partner’s lips finally close on the clitoris, she trembles, and he begins to gently suckle. These kisses can spread over a larger area, encompassing other sensitive areas.
How do you know when orgasm is approaching? There are many surprising signs. It’s impossible to mistake. You won’t notice a heartbeat or rapid breathing. However, you will feel the “working surface” become more slippery. It has released the secret of the special mucus that moisturizes the vagina.
Tension of certain muscle groups in the pelvic region and contractions of the vaginal spasms clearly indicate that your lover will soon climax. Finally, her thighs tense and her pelvis moves toward the tongue. At these moments, the girl may sigh loudly, moan, or even cry.
