A man is selfish in bed — what to do and how to be?
It”s not easy for women. Work is exhausting, life is boring, men are furious. For men in particular, everything is difficult and sad. Women live together in many ways: emotions and attraction, common interests, everyday life, comfort and care, income, ability to provide for a family.
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All these components are very important, and, above all, women focus on them, relegating such powerful factors as sex to last place. Sex as a physiological interaction between two organisms, and in every sense of the word, brings harmony and satisfaction to both partners. This leads to the main problem. As practice shows, the main problem in intimate relationships is the inability of a man to satisfy a woman in bed. Not because they are helpless, no, in this business most seem to be fine. Another confusion is that men don”t even try to pleasure women. They consider it normal when they commit suicide, and their partners receive nothing — neither physical nor psychological satisfaction. Is this a familiar picture? Yes, almost every woman knows when her man is an egoist in bed.
He only thinks about himself in bed
He doesn”t ask her about her preferences, what position she wants, or what interests her. In bed he is on his own, he does not care about his own feelings and emotions. This figure is completely occupied only with himself and his “friends”; a woman is just a tool for receiving pleasure. It”s like a piece of furniture or furniture, plus many more useful built-in functions. Most men are unaware of certain types of orgasm. No, of course, they heard this strange word, but do not remember where or why. Therefore, for them this is completely unnecessary and unimportant nonsense. In general, female orgasm always occurs on its own and you don’t even need to strain for it — another common misconception among men. A man a priori considers himself a first-class lover, and if a woman causes him wild delight, then she is just one of his creatures. This macho man makes some primitive body movements, is basically short and believes that he has filled his partner. “I did everything I had to do!” the man exclaims. “I finished, but for some reason she didn’t.” Only he alone is clear that he “should.”
Read also: How to please a man in bed. Qualities a good lover should have the topic of sex is always relevant and connected. Without attaching importance to this, she plays an important role in relation to the opposite sex. A number of literature, trainings.
He is selfish partly due to the fault of women themselves
Often, a woman’s behavior and a man’s reaction to such behavior help not to change anything over the years. And why does she suffer if he is so good? When a woman is in love, she can turn a blind eye to indifference for a long time, adapt to her partner and imitate an orgasm. Why is this being done? Firstly, so as not to disappoint your bed hero and not hurt his pride. Secondly, so that he does not look extremely cold, because his vanity is fragile, like a crystal vase. This leads to the third reason. If a man does not have a very good attitude towards gender, he is unlikely to be able to establish a further relationship with this woman — this is the main fear and complicates the situation for her. Why this happens and what to do is another topic, but the fact remains. A woman suffers from sex without getting pleasure from it.
What should a woman do if a man is selfish?
Therefore, a man should be interested in using a strong sense of self-esteem. How? Yes, very simple! Express what you like and let him do it. Praise him for this, he will be happy and will give you incentive to keep trying. Unfortunately, most men cannot come up with scenarios or games in bed and do not have enough imagination. So, girls, let”s take the process into our own hands and act! Explain, instruct and demand. Yes, we demand! We give you pleasure because you played on his egoism, and we demand that you show yourself as a real macho. Doesn”t he demand this himself?
He ruins women”s lives and health
According to psychologists and sexologists, 6-7 out of 10 women do not get an orgasm from sex with their partners. However, they are not extremely cold, healthy and easily experience orgasm, for example, during self-pleasure. Monster stats, right? Although VTsIOM and Levada Center are engaged in similar calculations, they are not in sympathy. It is very useful to know that quality of life and health are the main focus of our women. To correct this, it is necessary to instill in men empathy, a cautious and sensitive attitude towards women from childhood. Otherwise, why did she need someone rude, insensitive, selfish?
You can read more about what traits a narcissistic man has and how to behave with him in the article at the link.
