Anal sex — a guide for men and women
Everyone can diversify their intimate relationships. If your partner asks you to try something new, should you prepare for pain and inevitable suffering? It is better for men to first study the behavior of women, and also read about psychology and physiology. The first attempt to force someone into bed ends not with accusations of perversion or anything else, but with mutual consent to anal sex.
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Does the first time always hurt?
Anal sex is not as bad as vaginal sex for the first time. They are exciting and almost painless, especially if the man behaves correctly and gently. According to statistics, mature couples who have been married for two or three years rarely add variety. After the formation of the female body, several births occur, mental consciousness grows, the body prepares for subsequent births, and this affects the pain syndrome. That is why the number of children affects a woman’s readiness for abnormal sensations.
What do men do? Their role is not only in worldly penetration (the essence and purpose on earth is clear), but also in working in foreplay. You can”t just feed it and drag it out and. It”s ugly, uncomfortable and painful at the same time.
Caresses and preparation of the anus
Essentially, the anal canal is not intended for sex and cannot stretch like a vagina. If the width of the anus reaches 5-8 cm, the vagina can be painlessly stretched up to 25 cm by the time the child is born. Pain occurs precisely when trying to stretch the “ring” of muscles working in the reverse mode. Rises into the air. For the benefit of the person, so that there is no awkwardness:
- Buy an extender from a sex shop.
- Refill with plenty of lubricant.
- Trim your nails and massage your socket at the same time as your clitoris.
A woman”s body can be any size when aroused, but only vaginally. At the same time, use oral sex to reduce pain attacks — it is enough to make a woman feel faint so that she thinks about the danger. It is important not to reduce concentration on the vagina and clitoris, the arousal will not go away.
Safety and stimulation of the anus
There is a category of lubricants intended only for the anus. Weak concentrates are not suitable as they dry out quickly. You can use fatty oils, but not condoms. If a man is ready, he can try not using protection, but risks breaking the frenulum due to the tense muscles in the anal ring when the penis enters it.
Read also: Why do men and women have different attitudes towards anal sex?
Not all men enjoy anal sex. It”s not for everyone. Men who like it enjoy it in different ways.
Remember that during traditional sex the penis is on the cervix and in the anus. Yes, and this is the main fear and clumsiness of women, suddenly something sticks to the head of the penis. When there is enough lubrication, nothing remains in the genitals; you can combine two types of sex: the first type of sex is anal, and the second is anal. This is good stimulation and a wonderful sensation. At the same time, the man pushes the feces inside so that there is no urge or attempt to do so.
IMPORTANT!!! During anal sex, women are advised to have a bowel movement and not eat during the day to avoid toilet pressure. In emergency cases, glycerin suppositories can be used.
Actions during the process
Understanding how to properly initiate anal sex will doom a man to have painless sex with a woman. This does not mean that it will bring great pleasure, perhaps a slight sensation. This is a short activity that requires nothing from the woman, but she receives nothing in return. As they say, with a calm stance, a person is happy and that’s it. He can continue cooking, cleaning, sleeping, etc.
How to properly have anal sex
Rule #1
Women should wash their anus. Men should lovingly care for her — with their tongue, fingers, whatever. Start small and end up big.
Rule #2
The second phase is the insertion of fingers into the anus. This needs to be done slowly. If anyone can remember the teacher”s move, proceed with caution. Since fine motor skills develop in children aged 3-5 years, a man in any case must be responsible for incorrect hand action.
Circular movements should gradually introduce the fingers. If this action does not give pleasure or at least does not cause sensation, you can proceed to insertion of the penis. There is no need to rush — her body must get used to the foreign object.
Rule #3
When the penis is inside, do not make sudden movements. Just slide them in and out smoothly, but not all the way. Otherwise you must start all over again. Hard sex with sharp entry and exit can damage a woman’s anus — there is a risk of cracks, bleeding, hemolysis and rupture of the walls.
In order for a woman to want to experience unusual sensations again, it is better to give her the opportunity to take a “break” from unusual sex. Each time, men will better understand how to initiate anal sex. Once a month is enough. However, some prefer to combine it with vaginal — buy a dildo.
