Dissatisfaction and sexual arousal in women
Every man’s dream is to see a smiling, cheerful, well-fed and happy woman. But when they come home from work, grumpy women, immersed in everyday problems and dissatisfied in their intimate lives, are met with conventions. Make the dream a reality for everyone.
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This is a good reason to understand relationships. Start with the sexual aspect. How long ago do you remember them giving you your favorite pleasure, and was it complete? Female and male sexual arousal differ, as does the logical conclusion — orgasm, but reaching the peak of pleasure is important for both.
Be sufficiently aroused by the sight of attractive shapes, eyes and lips. This is not enough for women. Female arousal at the sight of a strong, sexy man is not uncommon, but if you have been married for a long time, you cannot arouse your favorite kind. It is necessary to carry out a number of preliminary love studies.
Factors influencing sexual arousal in women
The desire for sexual satisfaction and the manifestation of sexual instincts is called libido. The severity of symptoms varies from person to person and depends on their congenital characteristics. The following factors can negatively affect female sexuality and libido: psychological, physiological and hormonal.
Psychological factor
- Stress and depression. Problems at work, conflict situations, dissatisfaction with authorities and other similar situations can cause stress, which subsequently leads to depression.
- First unsuccessful sexual experience.
- Fear of unwanted pregnancy. In this case, it is impossible to relax and think about satisfaction.
- Growing up in dysfunctional families with constant bickering and shouting. Lack of examples of normal relationships.
- Misunderstanding in couples or “sick” relationships.
- Sometimes the reason is so big and sits so deep in my head that my libido is completely absent.
Physiological factor
- Disgusting. May be caused by exacerbation of gynecological or chronic diseases.
- Prolonged physical activity.
- Overwork and lack of sleep.
- Medicines. Drugs for the treatment of cardiovascular diseases, painkillers, etc., disrupting intimate life.
- Taking birth control pills. Oral contraceptives that suppress the level of androgenic sex hormones reduce libido.
Read also: Sexual arousal in men: how does it manifest itself and what causes it?
Male sexual arousal is a complex process. It involves the processing of external information (what the stronger sex sees and hears).
Hormonal factor
Sex hormones form a unique hormonal system. Some of them are estrogen, progesterone and testosterone. A deficiency or excess of one or the other causes disturbances in the female body.
During breastfeeding, the hormone prolactin is released in large quantities, and female libido decreases. Therefore, nature does not allow a woman to be distracted from the most important thing — feeding the child.
If your lover is reluctant to approach in close proximity and tries to delay the moment, try to understand the reasons for this behavior. There may be a real problem. People who love and understand will always try to help.
How to excite a woman
These 8 signs will give away a dissatisfied woman head over heels.
Have a romantic date. Invite a restaurant. A glass of wine relieves tension and frees your lover. An alternative to a restaurant at home is a bath with bubbles, candles and romantic music. And for dessert, an erotic massage. Use your imagination. Don”t ignore long foreplay.
There are means aimed at stimulating women. They are used in extreme cases. Although some of them are harmless. They are called “female pathogens.” Distinguish between application types and methods.
- Tablets. They are effective for some time after adoption.
- Drops or tonics. Added to liquids. They act faster than tablets.
- Aphrodisiacs, oils and gels. They are applied externally and give immediate results.
To the above you can add edible natural pathogens such as greens, fruits, berries, chocolate, nuts and sparkling wine.
Female sexual excitability reaches its peak at 25-30 years of age, after which it declines at 45 years of age. During menopause, sexual desire increases and gradually becomes more futile. However, men experience the need for sex before the age of 25, which occurs until the age of 30, after which it gradually decreases.
Intimacy in a relationship is important, along with emotions. Lack of arousal can negatively affect sexual planning. Pay attention to your lover. Try different stimulation methods and be sure to find the one that suits you.
It is recommended to learn how to create a female pathogen at home. More instructions in the next article!
