Everything you wanted to know about anal sex, but were afraid to ask
Contrary to popular belief, both men and women can receive anal sexual pleasure, but for this it is necessary to properly prepare for the process. The tenderness of the partner and proper lubrication can avoid serious injuries.
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Why do people need anal sex?
Female anal orgasm is not a myth, but couples engage in this type of sex most often at the request of the man. About 70% of partners choose this type of sex out of curiosity, as well as for other possible reasons, to add variety to their sex life.
In most cases, it is men who encourage women to innovate. They want to take possession of their loved one in every sense of the word, to feel like a dominant male, and for the penis to invade their narrow passage. Vaginal sex provides a thrill, provided that the partner has sufficient skill in “squeezing” the vaginal muscles. Otherwise, the man dreams of another penetration.
Why do men do this?
Sexologists believe that men”s love for anal sex can be explained in two aspects: psychological and physical. From a physiological point of view, everything is clear — possessing a woman gives the greatest pleasure if she has a very narrow one. During vaginal sex, a man receives pleasant sensations only “at the entrance”, and the anus receives it along the entire length.
Men compare anal sex to virgin sex. From a psychological point of view, in addition to pleasant sensations, a man realizes his most unusual fantasies. This is due to the forbidden fruit he is trying to obtain.
Another reason may be the desire to have sex “like in a pornographic film.” The porn industry uses the most daring shots to attract the audience. As a result, men may develop feelings of inferiority and meaninglessness in their lives. A man who possesses a partner, as in pornographic films, entertains his ego, fulfills his secret fantasies and really enjoys it.
It is interesting to note that men who have problems at work can relieve pent-up stress by demanding this type of sex from their partner”s profession. Thus, some men test their partner’s self-confidence and believe that “if they agree, then they trust and love” as follows
Anal sex for men is as beautiful a picture as pornography, and after extracting it, they are ready to endure the most pleasant smells and unsightly marks on their own penises.
Why do women do this
Most representatives of the fair sex agree to anal sex in the hope of experiencing a woman”s anal orgasm. At the same time, according to researchers, 90% of women never even want to try this type of sex, but agree under the influence of a man.
Girls do not experience orgasm during bowel movements, so there are no nerve endings in the female anus that allow them to experience sexual pleasure. There is a high probability of a lack of pleasant sensations during sex. An exception is possible only if the vagina is located in a certain way and orgasm occurs when the penis stimulates the posterior wall of the vagina through the anus.
In most cases, girls agree to anal and bend under the pressure of a man, wanting to please him and make their wildest fantasies come true. Even if the girl refuses, men do not give up, they continue to make hints, flirt and touch their passionate places.
Except in cases where men are very persistent, girls agree to anal sex, attacking the man with sexuality and giving him incredible sensations, thereby remembering him as a good girl in bed.
In most cases, girls do not experience orgasm from anal sex, but they imitate it or experience pleasant sensations on the basis that their body is tuned to sexual intercourse.
Follow the links in our article to find a selection of the best positions for anal sex.
Consequences of anal sex
Unlike the vagina, the female anus is not exactly designed by nature for sexual intercourse. It is not released, and therefore the function of the organ is emasculated. If you approach this process without due attention and caution, it can lead to very unpleasant consequences.
Even if a woman relaxes, as soon as a man begins to penetrate the anus, the walls contract, and all the pleasant anticipation and excitement instantly evaporate. In order for the partner to enter, the girl must allow her muscles to completely relax.
Lubricants are not released in the anus, so it is necessary to properly deceive the body. To do this, use Vaseline from a sex shop or special lubricants. There are even anesthetic lubricants, but their use is not recommended, since a woman needs to feel her body. Uncomfortable and painful sensations require cessation of contact.
With proper preparation, unpleasant anal consequences from sexual intercourse can be minimized, but it is impossible to foresee everything. The most serious consequences of the anus include rupture of the walls, bleeding, painful fissures and the development of serious diseases.
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Pros and cons of anal sex
Anal sex has both positive and negative sides. Positive aspects include a brighter male orgasm from penetration into a narrow passage, the possibility of obtaining a female anal orgasm, the possibility of improving relations between a man and a woman and strengthening trust.
Partners who decide to try a new type of sex often feel that they feel better and have fulfilled one of their wildest desires. If there was no embarrassment, the relationship between a man and a woman could be stronger.
The disadvantages of this type of sex are the woman’s discomfort and possible cracks. In addition, during anal sex, an unpleasant smell of feces may appear, as well as traces of feces on the man’s penis, even if the woman washed herself well before meeting her partner.
The disadvantages also include the fact that during sex gas begins to be released and the man does not receive pleasant sensations. Due to the fact that anal sex is not physiological, microcracks can form from penetration by a woman, which do not heal due to constant bowel movements.
As a result, the microbiological flora of the body is disrupted, and bacteria can enter the food system through the esophagus. To avoid such a situation, the body begins to defend itself and stops the urge to defecate for several days. The consequence of this may be severe constipation and repeated examination of the anus.
A man who dreams of anal sex may not think about the various embarrassments that may arise, and when he discovers penis feces, he becomes very uncomfortable. The consequences of this can be very unpredictable. That is, instead of the expected increase in attraction to a girl, there is a decrease in sexual desire, and to such an extent that even ordinary sex becomes useless.
Diseases that may occur
The unpleasant consequences of anal sex may not appear immediately. Men who are accustomed to narrow movements of the anus may not experience pleasant sensations from future vaginal penetration. This can lead to erectile dysfunction. A man becomes obsessed with anal sex, and for a full orgasm he needs to penetrate his partner”s anus.
A woman may develop a sphincter. This is why gas and feces pass freely through the anus. Complications in the form of thrombosis and hemolysis are also possible.
Diseases that can occur as a result of anal sex:
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- Anal fissures;
- Paralysis is inflammation.
- Cryptitis — anal glands;
- Injury to the walls of the rectum — this leads to constipation and the feeling of a “wet” sphincter.
- Rectal loss;
- Rectal cancer;
- Internal bleeding;
- Rupture of the septum between the vagina and the intestinal wall.
All of these dangers are potential, and with maximum protection and a careful approach, there may not be any unpleasant consequences. Moreover, trouble may begin later, for example, immediately after sex, but not immediately, for example, a woman who decides to defecate will find that she is in trouble.
If a man does not have a condom, he should not overlook the possibility of infection due to infection. Additionally, if the anus is too narrow for a woman to relax, the penis itself may be damaged.
Unwanted pregnancy can also occur during anal sex, since sperm from the anus can easily penetrate the vagina. The risks of pregnancy from anal sex and how to avoid them are discussed in more detail in the following article.
Orgasm from anal sex and its consequences
Female anal orgasm is a rare occurrence. The most sensitive part of the female vagina is the posterior fornix, which in most cases is anatomically located very close to the rectum. A woman can achieve orgasm if the penis stops strongly in the G-spot area. To increase arousal, she can ask her partner to penetrate the anus, massage the clitoris, or penetrate further into the vagina with a toy. In this case, the chances of getting an orgasm increase.
Getting an orgasm requires proper preparation for anal sex. Because the sphincter is tightly compressed, it can be difficult for men to achieve orgasm.
Before anal penetration, men should pay attention to foreplay. Preparation for it should continue for several days so that anal penetration does not cause pain. Ideally, the first step is for the man to lovingly advance the woman and insert a small object into her anus. The best position for anal penetration is lying on your back or side with your legs bent.
Women should not have to endure pain from anal penetration. Even an orgasm can cause discomfort. This is because muscle contractions can cause the rectum to crack or rupture. If blood is noticeable during defecation or when removing a partner’s penis, you should consult a doctor — proctologist as soon as possible.
Anal sex should not be practiced regularly due to the increased risk of injury.
A disease in which a person constantly experiences orgasm
Although it is very rare in nature, it is possible that the disease can cause a person to have many orgasms every day. It doesn”t bring much joy. On the contrary, life can become very difficult. This condition is called “permanent arousal state” and can occur in both men and women.
Women who have never had an orgasm in their lives tend to create desire in such patients, but a sick girl can have up to 200 orgasms a day, sitting or not. at a meeting at the cinema or at a meeting with parents.
A well-known case of this disease occurs in 71-year-old Lyra. The disease manifested itself after brain surgery, and life turned into a real hell. According to Lilla herself, she cannot sit on the sofa during meetings with her parents or calmly travel by bus to another city. Even just sitting in a chair brings many orgasms, and traveling by bus may not be the most pleasant experience.
The same disease also befell another woman, who recently admitted that doctors began to take her seriously. A few years ago they said about her that she was “every man’s dream.”
The woman said that this feeling was very depressing for her. Because “it’s impossible to walk down the street with the constant feeling that you’re about to die.”
Similar diseases occur in men and are known as priapism. As a rule, these are not endless orgasms, but simply long, sometimes very painful erections that occur on their own, and not during sexual arousal.
