Excuses for sex. Whatever people come up with.
The exception is gender — women are recognized as experts in this field. In addition, most men stubbornly do not believe that women are really tired and want to sleep or feel too bad for sex. Although they themselves sometimes get “excited.” But more on this later.
Contents of the article:
First, 10 ways women avoid intimacy. The study was conducted by a popular British magazine, but Russian sexologists compared the results of the European study with their own, and women all over the world turned out to be almost the same.
What do women most often come up with instead of just saying: “darling, I want you, but not now”?
- It”s a hard day, I”m so tired. 69%.
- It”s too late, I have to go to work early tomorrow. 61%
- And yet: I have a headache. 57%
- Summer options: very hot, we are already sweating. 54%
- Oh, I still have so much to do while running. 48%
- I”m in a terrible mood, I feel like I”m in a terrible mood 47%.
- Something that makes me uncomfortable. 39%
- I want to sleep. 33%
- After dinner: oh, I was 28% full.
- I was. Didn”t prepare (didn”t shave my legs, didn”t dress the wrong woman). 27%.
The prospect of sex makes women feel guilty, even if their lover took everything at face value. In that case, why worry?
Reasons — good and not so good
Options not invented by women are still worth considering. An important day may begin several days before it. After a working or hot day it is very pleasant to take a shower. It is also very practical for “finishing”. Well, she certainly didn’t show the man of her dreams that panties and unshaven legs were funny. Yes, and women do get tired, sick and nervous.
In her opinion, a girl may start making excuses if the time for sex has not yet come. However, she cannot directly tell her boyfriend about this. She”s afraid he doesn”t love her enough to wait. In this case, the man perceives a rather systematic refusal as an attempt to manipulate him.
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If a man has already tried to get a woman into bed on the second or first date, she has every right to go out and take advantage of the first item on the list above.
The excuse is used by a woman if she is angry with her lover. Such punishment of criminals, including the slightest element of manipulation. And she herself may be “punished” because at the moment she may want sex more than men.
It also happens that I just don’t want sex. Even with your beloved and only one. Then you need to come up with reasons not to offend your partner.
The most offensive reason: if a woman takes a lover, she avoids sex with her husband. In this case, refusing sex is not the only “unexpected call.”
Men make excuses too!
Not as original as women’s: “I’m busy” and “I want to watch a movie”, “What are you talking about, football is about to start.” Well, or just pretend to be asleep.
What if children were told the truth?
We”ve spoken out about women”s best excuses for avoiding responsibility, so it wouldn”t be unfair not to offer an assessment of the sex excuses used by the stronger sexes.
- Honey, I really had a crazy day, completely without power.
- Please touch my forehead. Do you think temperature exists? Do you even have aspirin?
- Has she gone crazy? Today is the semi-final!
- Need to finish something at work. Don”t want to cancel your vacation due to lack of money?
Honey, you look so tired. Maybe you”ll go to bed earlier today?
- Wow! 11 more hours! You know that tomorrow I will wake up at the crack of dawn! You are evil.
- After yesterday? Listen, would you like to have a beer? Come on?
Funny moments: Men, unlike women, use funny phrases very often. Are you serious? How can you explain this to a living person?!” Women, as a rule, understand that their lover is not at all inclined towards sex, but is not offended for any reason.
This happens to men and women because they have come up with a valid reason for refusal to avoid sex when they don”t want to hurt their partner. If it doesn”t happen often, then perhaps you shouldn”t worry too much?
