First Sex: Women”s Reviews of Their First Sexual Experiences
Movies, magazines, and books have created such incredible images of what sex should be like, while stable. People who have never encountered intimate issues expect romantic evenings with candles and passion. They anticipate the greatest joy and unforgettable sensations of their lives.
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Everyone has their own experience, and it rarely resembles a beautiful scene from a movie. For some, everything is truly calm and romantic, while others want to forget that terribly awkward sex.
Regardless of age and situation, first sex is a very important and crucial moment. To get an idea of what to expect, we surveyed 20 women, and they were happy to share their experiences.
First sex. Threesome. A girl”s revelations.
What girls remember about their first sex.
- It wasn”t romantic at all. My sex was rough and dirty, and we were very drunk. I was 17, it was a beach party. I was pretty drunk, called a guy I”d met, and we had sex in the back of his pickup truck. He soon left to study abroad, and we didn”t talk about the incident for two years.” — Veronica, 23.
- “I was in high school, and it happened on the same birthday. I slept with a childhood friend in his basement. We were very drunk. The next day, I found out that my best friend had also lost her virginity that night. Every year on October 30th, we write letters to each other and celebrate the anniversary of the beginning of our sex life.” — Victoria, 23.
- We were 17 years old, and we were waiting for our vacant apartment to be ready. His parents went to visit for New Year”s, and we got down to business. I was very nervous, and I think he was too. We lit candles and did everything slowly and tenderly. Honestly, it was so painful that I couldn”t imagine it. But overall, everything went well. Not everyone is lucky enough to lose their virginity.” — Diana, 22.
- After school, we went to his place and locked him in his room. Everything happened naturally. I can”t say it was painful, but I”d never experienced anything like it before. It felt strange. The sex ended immediately after a minute or two. — Zhanna, 21
- “I lost my virginity at the age of 17. I”m with people who cared about me, but now I understand that this is not a serious relationship. It happened late at night in the back seat of my car. I was very nervous, but he was calm. He made me feel comfortable and even sexy. Thank God I won”t have to regret my first experience with him.” — Dana, 22.
- Everything turned out completely different from what I had imagined. I was a little worried, but it was convenient for me. He told me to relax and that if I didn”t want to, we wouldn”t continue. I was in so much pain that I had to stop the process. I felt shame and embarrassment, everything was wrong. But my boyfriend understood everything, I put it out of my head and said that everything was fine. He helped me overcome my fears and forget this bad sex. By the way, we are still together.” — Katya, 24 years old.
- I was in my senior year. In fact, it turned out to be not as convenient as I thought. I was completely unprepared for this. We were at the hotel. My friend was sleeping in his room and I had to have sex on the balcony. We didn”t plan this at all, but I don”t regret it at all. We are still friends with this man.” — Sasha, 22 years old.
- The first time I had sex was with a man I had been dating for several months. I was 19 years old. After school I spent time at his house, and he lived with his parents. In the evening, when his parents went to bed, I came to his house. It was unplanned and my boyfriend didn”t know he would see me. I was emotionally ready to have sex for the first time. But the thought that I would be completely naked in front of him and that his parents might catch us ruined the moment a little. I was very worried. Everything went well and no one was hurt, but my only regret is the circumstances under which it happened. Now I understand that my first experience was wonderful, and I would not want to change anything. I am so grateful to this man for his kindness and gentleness. — Marina, 26 years old
- My mother told me everything about sex honestly and openly. Perhaps this helped me not to worry at that moment. But the problem was that she was telling me about men, and my first sexual experience was with a girl. So when I had sex with my girlfriend, I was completely unprepared.” — Elina, 22 years old
- My first sex was on a camping trip when I was 16 years old. The thought of intimacy always made me nervous. I asked so many questions — how to behave, what to do, does it hurt. I discussed this with my boyfriend and realized that I could trust him. It was uncomfortable at first, but not painful, but I had never experienced this before. Therefore, I can advise you to lose your virginity only with the one you love. This way you can relax and have fun, even if you haven’t experienced it before.” — Karina, 19 years old
- “I wanted to lose my virginity before I went to university because it happened after drinking. I met a guy on the Internet and we talked for a long time. I asked him to meet several times, but he didn’t want to be my first. He invited me to visit on New Year”s Eve, but the night still ended with sex. After that I felt strange and thought that I should have waited and taken this step with my loved one. This could affect my sexual relationships. I know people who fell in love for the first time. For them sex is intimate and sacred, but not for me. I sleep with someone just for pleasure, I don’t need an intimate relationship to have sex with a man” — Nastya, 24 years old
- I was 18, and then we had a long relationship. My boyfriend came to visit me, and everything happened spontaneously. He had to leave urgently, leaving me alone with my feelings. I was torn by emotions. I felt shame, regret and helplessness. But it soon passed. I realized that I had nothing to regret because I really loved him. We don”t talk anymore, but I think about him often. — Sonya, 25 years old
- I was 16 years old and my boyfriend and I had been together for six months. Everything was serious, and we decided to do it. I thought sex was supposed to be gentle and fun, but it hurt like hell. It only lasted a few seconds, but I still remember this feeling with trembling. — Katya, 20 years old
- I”d been dating a guy for a few months, and he told me we should have sex. He wanted to see if we could continue being together. I was 18 and in love with him, so I decided to give up my virginity. We did it in the car (isn”t that romantic?). I was really worried about not living up to his expectations. Like him, I was thrilled with the feeling. We were perfect for each other back then, and it seemed like we”d soon get married. Our relationship ended, but I don”t regret a thing. The only thing is, now I don”t sleep with a man to prove I”m worthy of him.” — Mira, 22.
- I lost my virginity at 15 to a man who was 15. We decided to do it after three months of dating. I was ready for this step. Honestly, I didn”t feel any different after that. Maybe I matured a little, but it wasn”t very noticeable. If you think you”re ready for sex, then have it freely, just don”t forget a condom. — Sveta, 17
- “I wasn”t “precocious” when it came to kissing or sex. My first time was at age 20. After entering university, I wanted to do it. But when I actually did, I didn”t find that “right” desire to lose my virginity. I decided to only do it with someone I was truly in love with. I found that person, and everything went well. My only mistake was not telling him it was my first sexual experience. He only realized it later. I was really worried that he was scared, and that was very distracting. He didn”t think I was a virgin, but it didn”t bother him. We”re still in a relationship.” — Alina, 23.
- I always thought it would happen after marriage. But the older I got, the more interested I became in sex. As soon as I turned 17, I wanted to experience what it was like. I asked someone I occasionally dated if he wanted to be my first, and he agreed. We used condoms. Unfortunately, I didn”t experience the emotional surge I imagined. It could have been tolerated until marriage. But I probably would have died of curiosity.” — Yulia, 26
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The heroines of these stories are heterosexual, bisexual, lesbian, and queer women. Each has a unique experience and is ready to share it.
First sex is truly important and can even impact your intimate life. Don”t rush things and take this step with your first guy. This moment is unforgettable. It”s better to wait until you have a close and trusting relationship so you don”t regret it later. Then romantic feelings will help smooth over all the awkwardness of the moment.
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