How to make anal sex enjoyable and painless for a woman
Neither doctors nor sexologists have a clear opinion about the advisability of anal sex. This, of course, is no secret to anyone nowadays. Many men love this type of penetration very much and therefore try to get “permission to penetrate the buttocks” from their partners. At the same time, not all women like this type of sex, and the main reason for this is the common fear of pain. However, it turns out that there are many recommendations on how to make anal sex comfortable, as well as how to get rid of moral discomfort during “anal.”
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Fear of harm to health
Many women, having heard about the proposal to have anal sex, are mainly afraid of harming themselves. And they are afraid that it will be very painful for them, because, in the end, it is this type of sex that can lead to many unpleasant consequences. We”re talking about:
- Rectal diseases;
- Risk of transmission of sexually transmitted diseases;
- Negative reaction of the immune system to male sperm;
- Pain.
How to make anal sex more comfortable? First of all, it should be noted that all this can be avoided if the offer comes from a permanent partner. If a loving and courteous partner controls the depth of penetration even at the peak of pleasure, then rectal disease does not occur. As for the 2-second risk factor, it can be eliminated by the usual method of using a condom. Speaking of pain, we should not forget that modern medicine puts on the market many different gels for intimate use during anal sex, lubricants and special condoms. Many women worry that penetration of the penis into the anus may cause pain. According to sexologists, the muscles of the anus are properly prepared and elastic, which prevents pain. Of course, this is done in order to protect the tenderness and affection of the partner from herself.
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First anal sex
Even if a woman has not been a virgin for a long time and is familiar with many positions, her first anal sex is special, and you need to approach it carefully. A careful and sensitive partner during foreplay should make your partner very aroused and then gradually begin to enter the anus. You should start with slow circular movements, gradually moving to classic friction. This is one of the most important conditions for making anal sex comfortable: you must be able to rub your partner’s anus with soft, circular movements, and then gradually move on to classic friction. If a woman experiences discomfort, foreplay should be repeated and arouse her again, affecting the strongest vascular zone. If a man has an impressive size penis, you must first develop the anus with the help of special “toys” sold in sex shops. These exercises help make the hole more elastic, provide deeper penetration and promote enjoyable anal sex.
Top tips for beginners
Sexologists have prepared many basic recommendations for women who decide to open the world of anal SCM.
- You should not allow anal sex to a selfish partner who does not agree to listen to his friend’s feelings (this advice is also suitable for lovers of the classics).
- Mandatory foreplay, best of all rimming (oral-anal sex).
- Use a condom.
- Relax completely before penetration (for beginners, anal beads can be used).
- Avoid anal sex without lubrication (the anus is not lubricated, and sex without lubrication will only cause discomfort).
- Choosing the right position.
The last point is worth dwelling on in more detail. The most suitable position for anal sex is considered to be “spoon” — a man and a woman lie (he is behind), “the woman is on top.” In the second position, you can control the depth of penetration, speed of movement and reduce the risk of pain. The partner is more relaxed because she is not afraid of the man’s hasty and excessive activity. She can slowly shake the penis and dive as deep as she can take it. Sexologists also recommend special breathing during anal sex — inhale as the penis exits and exhale as it enters. This breathing technique helps you relax as the penis penetrates the anus and not react to brain signals. A woman simply tricks her brain and helps it achieve orgasm.
Additional secrets
To get even closer to orgasm, additional stimulation can be achieved using the following methods. And finally, about alcohol. It must be completely abandoned. Of course, during anal sex, alcohol dulls the pain, but there is one peculiarity — without pain during intimacy, a woman can “miss” the possible appearance of microcracks or tears. The effects of alcohol wear off, but the trauma remains. Of course, whether or not to agree to anal sex is a purely personal matter, but in any case, the recommendations of sexologists will not be superfluous.
