More communication means better sex. Why is this so and 7 reasons for it
Living together is not only a pleasant pastime, but also a very responsible and difficult job. I would call it work. No less important in this “work” is sex. Our mood, self-confidence and even health depend on it.
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Communication is equally important. After all, over time, sex becomes less cheerful, less emotional and less passionate. And to prevent this from happening, you need to spend as much time as possible with each other, talk, maintain a spiritual connection and generally communicate in order to maintain the spice in the relationship.
Couples with no communication
As a rule, in such couples women often become tense, touchy and withdrawn. At the end of the day, what matters is a happy, calm woman who listens and shares her experience. And, of course, receive compliments.
If this does not happen, she will accumulate resentment and in such a situation will not be able to talk about quality sex. As a result, the partner experiencing such feelings is also “driven”, does not understand what is happening, and in the end may stop trying or even look for satisfaction “on the side.”
Communication” means more than just talking. It could be walking together, hobbies, or your personal traditions. For example, watching a movie every Saturday night. A romantic dinner on Friday or a joint Sunday run in the park.
All this brings a woman a feeling of complete satisfaction, good mood and peace of mind. And it is enough for a man that his beloved is happy. It has been proven that next to a satisfied, calm and happy woman, representatives of the stronger sex enjoy it and are ready to try it.
Research has also shown that women are more likely to experience sexual attraction and desire for men who experience fun and enjoyable moments in life!
7 Reasons You Have the Best Sex Because of Communication
- Help you understand each other better.
When you are in constant contact, spend time alone with each other, talk, make common plans and dream, you become closer psychologically. Cordial and open conversations bring couples closer emotionally. No wonder they say they “get it at first sight.” Yes, yes, we are talking about couples with a close emotional and spiritual connection.
- Reduce conflicts.
In couples who talk openly with each other and express (calmly) both frustration and goodness, conflict situations tend to be kept to a minimum. This is understandable, people do not accumulate resentment and remain alone with their thoughts. They freely express the complaints of their other half and listen to them.
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How did this happen? Everyone talks about how men only need “one thing.” You are ready to dress up and give him exactly “one thing”. What”s up with this?
Often their partner is a good person, but not at all the same in bed. This disappointment and irritation only accumulates and eventually “explodes” in the form of conflict.
- She returns love.
Look at the young couple walking slowly through the park. They hug, hold hands and kiss. Perhaps they are at the beginning of a relationship. Their sex is probably passionate, “hot”, and there is a surge of emotions in it. What is stopping your couple from walking together, hugging and kissing. Or remember the juicy secrets that connect you, or the sex that happened in an unexpected place? Tell your partner about this. Perhaps this will awaken a new passion in you?
It”s no secret that women love with their ears. Yes, and men too. “You look so sexy in that shirt!” Or “You make me so excited with your new dress!”
If a person is confident in his attractiveness, he has already proven that he is not like anyone else. Don”t be shy, tell me how you feel, it”s not difficult at all!
- This enhances intimacy.
Nothing brings people together like a shared secret/secret knowledge. Why not share your love and secret of your juicy agent? And he, accordingly, shares it. And if you diversify your sex, you will definitely become closer. And if you constantly share your secrets, you will be the closest people to each other.
- It makes you more vulnerable.
We are accustomed to the fact that vulnerability is not good. This is a special weakness of people. What if you see it differently? Will you accept your vulnerability? Would you tell yourself about your vulnerabilities? And don”t be shy about them. Remember, no one is perfect!
And your partner knows your weaknesses in order to use them correctly.
- This helps communicate your sexual needs.
All modern psychologists and sexologists simply shout at us that we should not be shy about talking about our desires in bed. After all, if two people put another friend to sleep because they saw him naked, the conversation should not be embarrassing. This is even a conversation about choice. At the end of the day, your gender is only about the two of you. Not only can you talk about it, but you can also show how it”s done and practice until you”re satisfied. Convenient, convenient matching!
Don”t blame your significant other and don”t hide your cut. Tell us about what”s important to you right now. Or maybe you want to try something new in bed? And if you are a little shy, try writing a letter with erotic content — this will add “light” to the relationship.
Your significant other may not only guess about your secrets, hidden dreams and desires, but also not understand or misinterpret hints.
Talk often about what you really like and also about what doesn”t suit you. Thus, criticism is perceived as normal and appropriate. Each of you must listen and hear your partner.
Love does not continue with sex, neither alone nor in private conversations. However, the disgust that sex can cause can easily trample all the bright feelings.
Be open and honest when expressing your desires, aspirations and feelings. Then both relationships and sex will be the kind you can only dream of!
