Why did you have an erotic dream? 18 different outcomes
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“would you like to change your boyfriend/girlfriend?” — It flashes through your mind. Then you start to worry — what if your feelings begin to fade away and your couple faces an inevitable breakup? How do you now see your friend in a dream, who did all sorts of indecent things to you?
Is it worth paying attention to erotic dreams and what is really worth thinking about? There is much more in our book of dreams 18+.
Freud again
Not every one of us dares to tell even our best friends about our nightly adventures. Partners — even more so. Especially if he was not in the dream at all.
Dreams on the Internet tend to have a different melody. One will say that the dream prophesies great happiness, wealth, good health, and the other will print it.
Thank you, I feel better.
Freud studied dreams, their interpretation, and why our subconscious mind shows us these strange night movies. He liked to say that dreams are our secret desires.
In fact, everything is not so simple here.
Lauri Levenberg is a psychologist and dream researcher. She will tell you what your dreams mean and what to do about it all now.
18 most popular scenarios
- Sex with a very rich man
Everything is simple here. Perhaps you dream of improving your financial situation. “Sex dreams aren”t just about what you need. They”re about what you want for yourself.”
In other words, if you dream about sex with filthy rich men or girls, you are simply dreaming about wealth. Money and sex. Who wouldn”t want that?
You don”t have to worry as this is a very popular scenario. Everything is logical here — we spend a lot of time at work. Sometimes we meet our friends, family, our other half, colleagues more often than we meet a cat. Of course, these annoying individuals are trying to infiltrate your dreams.
But there is one nuance here. Who exactly did you dream about? Boss? Subordinate?
If you dreamed of sex with one of your subordinates, then everything is much more interesting here. What exactly are this person”s responsibilities? How does he cope with his responsibilities? Levenberg thinks there”s a lot to think about. Apparently, it”s time to carry out some kind of restructuring and revise the schedule.
- People you barely know.
You and this girl/this guy met a few months ago. They exchanged a few words at a party with friends and did not communicate anymore. And suddenly this person suddenly falls into your dream. What do you mean?
No, love didn’t come to you by mistake. And it’s not at all a fact that this person really attracts you physically. Levenberg says the problem lies not in the person himself, but in something specific. In other words, something made an impression on him. Remember, maybe this person aroused strong feelings in you when you met?
A very common option. You are friends and, as a rule, do not plan to take your relationship to another level. Why did your platonic relationship turn erotic last night?
“What three associations do you have with this person? Experience these qualities for yourself,” advises Levenberg. The subconscious is very unteachable. Perhaps you admire some of this person’s qualities and want to adopt them?
So, we”re talking about work again. Here you can apply the same technique as in the paragraph above. What three qualities are inherent in a boss? And think about something else — what will your team lead to? Are the company”s (and yourself) problems a difficult obstacle to overcome?
Your boss has a certain amount of power over you, and this is worth paying special attention to. Are you the master of your life? Are there areas in your life where you simply sit idle because they lack your strong hand?
- Sex not with your partner
You have a boyfriend or girlfriend and you love each other. Why in a dream do you have sex with a stranger, and not with her or him?
Levenberg hurries to reassure everyone — everything is in place. This is a completely normal dream. But your intimate life still deserves a critical look.
“Do you have enough sex in this relationship? What about variety?” asks Levenberg.
- “This man is not even your cup of tea.
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Throughout our lives, we discover ourselves through sex, reading books and watching movies, our brain creates incredible images that awaken the body.
Levenberg recommends first of all paying attention to what makes your lover stand out from dreams about other friends. This applies to any erotic dream.
Let”s say it”s simple. This person is not initiating you, but he is initiating your subconscious. Some of his qualities want to “excite” you, no doubt.
- Celebrity.
If you really like this person and find him or her incredibly sexy, then it”s simple. He or she initiates you. your girlfriend”s friend or a hot fitness instructor like your boss does. Enjoy these dreams.
In all other cases, use the “three associations” tactic. Why do you think this person is so famous? How did he achieve such success? And if this is a musician, Levenberg recommends taking a closer look at the lyrics of his songs.
Dreams of sex with the president clearly leave a lasting impression. How do you react to this?
Levenberg believes this is another signal from your subconscious. You need to manage your life better.
Who is your main manager? You? Or is there anarchy and confusion reigning there?
No panic! Of course, you can”t read the book of dreams if you”re still stalking your ex-girlfriend”s or your first man”s social media.
It”s better to see a psychotherapist.
To all those who have been happy in a new relationship for a long time, Levenberg advises them to relax.
Sex with ex-boyfriends, girlfriends and first loves is a classic of erotic dreams.
This person has been a part of your life for some time. And you will miss these feelings, these emotions. Passion, first love, joyful excitement.
When do you most often have these dreams? When you are not in a relationship and feel lonely. And when the current relationship is ordinary and does not give vivid feelings and impressions.
“Your subconscious is telling you that your relationship is lacking emotion. It”s time to bring back the spark and passion,” explains Ravenberg.
- Sex with strangers.
Film “When Harry Met Sally”. Sally claims that from the age of 12 she had the same erotic dreams in which a faceless stranger tore off her clothes. According to Levenberg, this is one of Ero-Again”s most popular scenarios.
How to order the desired dream
And if we delve deeper into psychology, what does this dream mean? It turns out that sex with a stranger shows us who we are. Firstly, you need to know yourself, and secondly, finally become the master of your own life.
No, you don”t need to change your orientation. Pay attention to who you had to spend that night with. What is he and what qualities does he have?
Remember, if you”re a girl, if you”re different, if no one expects you to be. Perhaps you outperformed all your male colleagues and received a round of applause? Or perhaps you advocated for women”s rights in some way?
Another possible interpretation is that you simply dream of all of the above (defeating men, defending women”s rights).
- Sex with a teacher
Are you your teacher, or do you like your teacher? It”s simple. Besides science, they want something else.
And if you don”t view your mentor as a sexual object, what then?
Pay attention to the subject they teach. Language—you focus on communication skills; mathematics—you learn how to manage your finances.
Strange, but understandable. Levenberg believes that your subconscious is seeking an approach to this person. You want to establish contact with them for the sake of your mental health.
And again, as in the old song, do you wish to endorse some of your enemy”s qualities? For example, the ability to communicate with the opposite sex, decisiveness, strength of character, etc.
This could be related to certain disruptions in your life, a kind of overload,” says Levenberg. “Many bodies in a dream—too much life and worries.
An orgy is too much at once. Perhaps you have too much. You”re trying to take it all in at once,” she explains.
Simplify, delegate, and take breaks wherever possible.
- Public places.
“Public places symbolize certain public spheres of your life. Everyone knows this sphere,” explains Ravenberg.
“Have I dreamed of having sex in my office, in front of my colleagues? Perhaps a work issue has consumed your entire life. You think about work, talk about it, and now you only dream about it.
- Sex in your childhood home.
Ask yourself what”s going on in your life. Why do you feel like a child? Do you need your mother”s help with keeping track of accounts and solving relationship problems? “Or are you just being very immature?” says Levenberg.
Sex in your last apartment or student dorm—here. Are you clinging to the past?
- Dreaming about an orgasm on a roof
Option 1: You”re really looking forward to some kind of climax, completion of a project, solution to a problem, etc.
Option 2: It”s time to have sex.
P. S. If you particularly liked a particular dream scenario, tell us about it in the second half. Some dreams are meant to come true.
