DS in BDSM: subtleties of the relationship between slave and master in the Topic
BDSM or the topic of sexual competence is quite an interesting level of legislation and regulation. One of the foundations of this topic is the relationship of the DS in BDSM, that is, the two main participants in the session, the dominant and the submissive. What is a DS relationship? Find out in this article!
Contents of the article:
DS or DB?
The concept of BDSM itself consists of several code definitions or the basis on which the entire world of this topic is built. Or, if BD is bondage, discipline, tying up, etc., then DS is the specific role of the session participant. DS in BDSM is literally the transfer of the rights of the submissive or dominant to the subordinate or submissive. In addition, there is an accurate and clear discussion of all the rights and responsibilities of each couple and a special document — a contract, in which everything is described in detail.
Additionally, there are several differences between DS sessions and other BDSM practices.
- SM sessions are practices in which physical satisfaction is achieved through the infliction of pain. That is, in the literal sense, these are pleasant pains.
- BD sessions are practices that derive psychological or moral satisfaction from physical interactions. Here the emphasis is on setting, attributes and scenarios.
My lord!
A dominant or top is one of the participants in a BDSM couple who plays a leading role during the session. This depends not only on the couple’s movement forward, but also on their behavior, as well as on the microclimate within the union. There are many synonyms for the word ruler: house, domin, lord, top, etc.
Bottom rights are transferred to dominants either forever or for the duration of the session. At the same time, a dominant can play a dominant role both physically and psychologically, and must do so in real life. If this is the last option, then such an outstanding top requires not only BDSM sessions, but also simply life subsidies.
Distinctive features of the dominant:
- Give orders.
- Punish
- Binding
- Are subject to humiliation, flogging or violence.
Slave to the lamp
A submissive is a partner of the SID who voluntarily submits to his orders and goes along with it, accepting punishment and reward. It is the submissive who makes such a dominant the top. Bottom, slave or slave, sub are all synonyms for a person who is attracted to the dominant type of partner.
Read also: BDSM: terms and rules, types of relationships between partners
Forbidden sensations attract people with their abnormality and severity. Already in Ancient Greece, elements of BDSM were displayed on frescoes in temples. And today.
BDSM. frank conversation
Sometimes partners begin to trust each other in order to translate BDSM relationships into real life. This is called Lifestail or 24-hour dominant presence. Moreover, no one steps out of these roles. This also requires a special agreement and voluntary consent.
Important! The subject in the session may dominate in real life and does not want to constantly have such a subordinate relationship. The principle of spontaneity is always present here. Otherwise, the situation moves into the realm of strong psychological pressure and domestic violence.
Contract based on trust
DS Besides the basic rules of the neighborhood community of people in relationships, there is a certain agreement between the submissive and the dominant. Of course, this is not a document that has any legal force, but some conditions must be specified.
- Symbols of communication. Very often, the symbol of the union of the supreme and the slave is an ordinary tattoo, piercing, perhaps a brand or a special bracelet or collar of some kind. This is a specific attribute of this tandem that allows the BDSM to feel more attached to the dominant outside of the session, and the dominant retains this influence.
- Dominant and subdominant obligations. The contract must clearly state all responsibilities relating to the partners. You should not express your needs; everything should be discussed on the shore, and not during the session. Perhaps your dominant does not want to communicate off topic, or vice versa, be prepared to give your subject tasks in real life.
- Taboos and wish lists. In addition, both parties provide a clear list of what is prohibited and the desires they pursue when entering into a thematic relationship. Desires may not coincide, but must come to a common denominator so that rights are not violated during the session, even before the creation of a “dom-sub” pair.
- Trust from partners. Both parties to the agreement must comply with it. The theme is an impressive world built on relationships and complete trust between partners. Very often, very strong alliances are created in BDSM. Much stronger than in real life. This happens because both participants clearly know all the boundaries and understand that it is unacceptable to prohibit, not trust partners and deal with contracts carelessly. In the end, you can harm your Sabah not only mentally but also physically.
Thus, BDSM DS is based on mutual feelings and thematic practices. The main emphasis is on psychological submission. Such low dependence on the dominant person can lead to a variety of playful activities, a sense of complete ownership, belonging and, thus, intense mental and physical satisfaction.
Read what you need to know about BDSM submission in the following article.
