Cunnilingus — what is it and how to do it correctly?
Besides penetrative sex (vaginal or anal), there is also oral sex — satisfying a partner with the mouth, lips, and tongue. When a man performs oral sex, it”s called fellatio. When a woman performs cunnilingus, you”ll learn how to do it correctly to please a woman.
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What is cunnilingus — a little more detail
The essence is that you lovingly caress a woman”s genitals with your mouth, thereby giving her pleasure and bringing her to orgasm. Due to the unique structure of the female genitalia (the main pleasure center is the clitoris, which is located outside, not inside, the vagina), most women derive true pleasure from cunnilingus. Or adult toys.
It”s not even a matter of the lover”s skill (many men are truly selfish lovers, focused on their own pleasure, not the woman”s), but rather physiology: the vagina typically experiences few strenuous consequences. Thanks to this intelligent nature, women don”t suffer pain during childbirth.
Therefore, cunnilingus usually focuses on the clitoris. Important: cunnilingus is called oral sex, meaning oral lovemaking—not everything necessarily ends with the mouth. You can use your hands or adult toys—or you can use your hands or adult toys. Yes, technically it”s not oral sex at all, but what”s the difference? The question is about pleasure, not strict terminology. Rules for Perfect Cunnilingus
Preparatory Stage
Rules for perfect cunnilingus
- First, everything that touches the girl”s genitals must be clean.
If the oral cavity is injured (sore throat, cold, sore throat, dental disease), cunnilingus is out of the question, as bacteria from the oral cavity can get onto the genital mucosa and harm the microflora. Fingers should be clean. Nails should be trimmed carefully (without sharp tips), as internal vaginal wounds are very painful.
And yes: shaving. Cunnilingus from someone who is shy is terrible. She has very delicate skin everywhere, and your stubble will rub everything.
Second: you can use lubricant. Yes, girls distinguish between natural lubrication and saliva in the mouth, but both of these substances dry out very quickly, and in the end everything becomes very uncomfortable, and the sink is ready. It is better to use edible lubricant (the reason can be guessed), unpopular aromas (the most chemical and unpleasant ones are popular).
In addition to lubrication, adult toys can be used. It is recommended to wear a condom, as dust particles and bacteria from the surface of the toy can get onto the mucous membranes of the genital organs.
Third: Menstruation. Cunnilingus during menstruation can be done if the partner does not experience discomfort or pain from the blood (for girls it hurts a lot during menstruation and does not hurt at all before sex). All hygiene items are removed from the vagina during cunnilingus.
Fourth: Pause. The most classic one is that the woman lies on her back with her legs spread, and the man is between her thighs. In this position, it is better to place a pillow, since quite a large load falls on the shoulders and neck.
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Should a man perform cunnilingus and why?
If he loves you, he should,” the girl said, pursing her lips and stamping her foot. But is this true for men? After all, the manifestation of love is in all of her Another position is when the woman sits or stands while the man kneels and caresses her with his mouth. A more dominant position for a woman is to sit on a man”s face. If you want to please each other at the same time, use the 69 position. The classic 69 requires a lot of movement, so it can be done on your side
Fifth: Clothes. You can caress a girl”s vulva through the fabric of her underwear. It”s very sexy and sensual, but eventually you”ll have to take off your underwear, which can cause anxiety.
You shouldn’t quickly rush down and jump on her vagina like a juicy peach (unless the girl herself asked for it). Start with kisses. Kiss her face, lips and neck, gradually moving down to her waist. This will help her get warmed up and aroused by the time you are between her thighs.
Don”t forget to compliment her. Girls often worry about their bodies, especially their genitals. They often experience discomfort from vaginal odor, discharge, etc. Girls will be very pleased when you tell them that you like what you see, feel and smell.
I”m already here! What to do next?
You can tease her when you reach her crotch. Press your lips to her vulva through the fabric of her underwear and exhale passionately. The sensation of hot air from the fabric is very intense and arousing. She can”t wait for you to finally get to the main course.
- But you don”t have to rush. There are many other places you can caress besides the vagina and clitoris. For example, you can shower and kiss her inner thighs, lightly nibble (“lightly” means lightly, not “let”s play Hannibal Lecter”), push the linen aside with your teeth, or squeeze her buttocks. So.
An important point about consent.
Olyashaa shows how to perform cunnilingus correctly
- Just because you”ve gained access to the vagina doesn”t give you access to everything else. For example, if a girl wants cunnilingus, it doesn”t necessarily mean she wants anal rings. If you haven”t had intercourse yet, she may not want you to insert fingers or toys into her.
Olyashaa shows how to perform cunnilingus correctly
You need to focus on the clitoris. The clitoris is located above the vagina (the opening through which the penis is inserted) at the junction of the labia minora. It looks like a small pink pea and is usually covered by a hood, but the clitoris peeks out from under the hood when a woman is aroused. Yes, that”s the same as a club member.
- What to do with the clitoris? Experiment. Press your lips against his. Press lightly and suck. Draw a cross with the tip of your tongue. Alternate between the tip of your tongue and a relaxed tongue. Lightly touch the tip of your tongue to create a pulsation. Lick. Lick the clitoris. Press the labia with your palm and massage up and down. This is ideal if the woman”s clitoris is particularly sensitive.
What if your jaw, tongue, or shoulders are tired? Get up and rest in a more comfortable position, use your fingers or adult toys.
What about teeth? Rubbing the clitoris is a bad idea; it”s very sensitive, so it”s best to avoid it. Don”t worry, it”s very difficult to accidentally damage the clitoris. For safety, you can wrap your lips around the teeth, but this is not necessary.
What should you do with your hands?
Whatever you want. For example, you can squeeze her buttocks with your palms, stroke her thighs and their insides, live, squeeze her breasts and lovingly care for her nipples. Alternating between tongue and fingers on the clitoris is another great idea.
- How will I know when she”s cumming?
As a rule, girls behave differently when they finish. For example, she may freeze with her legs outstretched, squint her eyes, or try to concentrate on internal sensations.
- Orgasm is not always loud moans and convulsions, but is often accompanied by convulsions, relaxation and heavy breathing, sweating and redness of the face. When she presses your head against her crotch, you”re definitely doing something right.
IMPORTANT: If you feel that she will finish soon, do not stop, continue doing what you are doing. Otherwise, you may push her and the orgasm may not happen.
What to do next?
If you hug your partner, calm down and try to take the hit, do you decide together what to do next? By the way, keep in mind that the fact that you gave a girl cunnilingus does not mean that she now has to give you a blowjob if she doesn’t want to. In sex, everything is voluntary and of your own free will, remember?
