Men, how do you feel about your wife”s sex toys?
Some men derive great pleasure from using adult toys during sex with their beloved woman. Moreover, they respond positively to the desire for solo masturbation and are happy to gift their spouses additional devices from sex shops. Conversely, some experience inexplicable feelings of jealousy and resentment.
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Is masturbation with adult toys considered cheating? Is it normal to scold your woman for her desires and her decision to satisfy them with plastic and rubber? Or is this absurdity that should be abandoned? Understand this.
Is it normal to use sex toys in marriage: Quora users” opinions?
-Men, what do you think about your wife using adult toys for her own pleasure when you”re not around? Ask the curious users of the social knowledge-sharing service Quora.
- Anonymous answer:
“Yes! I don”t mind at all. Over 37 years of marriage, my wife and I have acquired dozens of adult toys that she can use for her own pleasure when the mood strikes. I get a kick out of thinking about her fantasizing about having fun with her toys while I”m away. There”s nothing better than getting a video from her at an unexpected time, like when I”m at work, of her pleasuring herself with a dildo, talking about her fantasies, and screaming my name. She often uses toys while we”re together. As she”s gotten a little older and finally discovered her G-spot, I can tell her dildos have become an important part of her sexual activity.” “My husband is happy with my adult toys, even when he”s around.”
The reasons are as follows. 1 is my body. He doesn”t tell me what to do. 2 — His sex drive is lower than mine and he doesn”t want me constantly begging him for sex and satisfaction. 3 — I find it very difficult to climax, so masturbating with an adult toy relieves some of the pressure on him. I would never marry a man who tried to stop me masturbating or told me what to do without taking my feelings into account.” “I buy my wife adult toys! And she can use them at any time of the day. And she can use them at any time of the day or night. With or without me. She is my wife and I want her to be free. I want her to not feel guilty and be happy when she masturbates. Believe me, the more sexually free your woman is, the happier you will be! Both!” “My answer is somewhat different from the answers of other users. This is because my wife and I are into BDSM and our relationship falls into the master/slave category. In other words, to put it simply, I have complete control over it. Sexual activity.
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Although our relationship was different than described above, I had no problems with my girlfriend”s adult toys. I don”t feel threatened by these interesting devices. I understand that plastic and rubber cannot replace me. Next, I want to say that I sympathize with men who start screaming that they are too insecure and resentful. This is sad.” “My husband is not registered here, but based on our conversations, I will freely express his opinion on this issue. Now he doesn”t mind at all if I use adult toys while he”s not home. Note: I can use a vibrator during sex to provide extra stimulation to my sensitive spots, even when he”s nearby.” “Of course! I”m fine with such things. Why do I feel terrible when my wife has a good time alone when I can afford to watch porn and masturbate too? This is so stupid. Masturbation means a lot to me and to her. It relaxes me and relieves stress. It also turns me on even more every time I think about her in these moments. She also fantasizes about our nights together and repeatedly tells me how horny she gets when she masturbates.
- Everett E. Reilly III:
“It”s okay. It”s her body and she can do whatever she wants with it.”
Sex toys (women”s survey)
To be as open as possible, I also sometimes ask her myself to let me use an adult toy on her. One of the biggest and most intense sensations is seeing and hearing her pleasure. Plus, thanks to adult toys, I have gained additional insight into what she likes, and as a result, I have become a better lover and man in her life. Isn”t this a blessing? I love her so much.”
- Kevin Rome:
“Of course. I don”t care if she runs away from me. If she asks me for help, I will happily caress, kiss and hug her. Unfortunately, our schedules and daily routines rarely coincide. We also have three children who can interfere with general fun in the evenings and at night. It is for these reasons that her adult toys do not scare me. A happy man is a man who satisfies his woman. Men, are you so insecure that are you willing to stop your wife from using adult toys, with or without you? Would you deliberately destroy a toy she has, even if you bought it for her? Then you must be one of my performers. Women who are so terrible with men that they are willing to do all of the above should run away from them. What”s wrong with toys for adults? Let him use them if he wants. Who am I to tell her what to do? “I bought a lot of toys for my wife. I really enjoy watching her use them. So, when I”m not around, she needs to ensure that her needs are met. Some toys have helped us become accustomed to so many other ways to please each other. My wife also often told me about the new discoveries she made while masturbating in my absence. That”s how I learned more about her sexual preferences.” Adult toys are one of the most common fantasies for many people, so in principle this seems quite normal and should not bother anyone. Each person has their own preferences and desires. Especially when it comes to sex, there is no need to worry about using an adult toy while masturbating away from your partner. After all, such things do not affect the regularity of your sex life. Especially if sexual desire and inclination are at different levels, and a woman replenishes her energy with the help of adult toys. “This question is terrible. Men masturbate almost every day, why should women be deprived of pleasure when their lover is at work or on a business trip? Does your spouse prefer to satisfy his needs with a neighbor or best friend?
