Stories of girls who can”t have an orgasm
Four stories, each about a completely different woman. Confessions from women with unique experiences.
Cries of despair, advice from “experienced” women, the story of a woman who experienced her first orgasm at 36, revelations from a girl with ADHD—read all this and much more on today”s resource of the most interesting stories. The number of girls who can”t (or haven”t) have an orgasm.
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Story 1: 1000 and 1 Nights
“Hi, guys. I think it”s time to share this with the world. This situation is really weighing on me, and I”m borderline depressed.
That”s why I”ve never had an orgasm. When I search for people like me, I come across stories about how there”s always some kind of “exception.” This means they “never have an orgasm except when they”re on top” or that they “can”t have an orgasm with anything but their favorite vibrator.” This makes me feel even more alone and miserable. I must be a real freak because I”ve never had an orgasm.
And This is despite the fact that I”ve been sexually active since I was 16, tried masturbation, used various toys, and undergone a number of procedures.
I feel like there”s nothing I”m willing to try. Imagine someone telling me to rub my knees in various ways and guaranteeing that one day I”ll definitely crawl out of them. It”s hopeless.
I had one adult toy that douched, but it was completely uncomfortable for me, and I never had an orgasm.
The closest I get to orgasm is when I lie on my face. The pleasure washes over me, but I wake up as soon as it becomes too intense. And now I don”t have erotic dreams, only ordinary ones.
I”ve tried vibrators, vacuum cleaners, manual labor, dual therapy with a partner, spent time alone exploring my needs, and simply wanted to know what I like without orgasm as a goal. It”s all useless. I just want to stop feeling inferior to other women.
What if some of Have you never experienced orgasm like me, or did you find your way after long and unsuccessful attempts?
Story 2: The Long Road
“My first orgasm (or at least the one I was looking for) happened when I was 36 years old.
Before that, I was interested in masturbation, as well as the usual rubbing with elbows. I tried this from time to time, but I got bored and abandoned the idea. At the same time, I love sex with my husband, but I have never experienced orgasm with him or with another partner.
Then, in my thirties, when I returned to the “I”ve been told masturbation is good for your health, so maybe I should try again” stage, something changed. It wasn”t the technique that changed, it wasn”t my body. I either didn”t take the medicine or stopped taking it. I didn”t have an incredibly happy relationship with my new partner.
Of course, perhaps I have become a little less demanding of myself and my fantasies, but even this cannot be called the reason for the changes that have occurred. Maybe I”m getting older and my hormonal balance has changed a bit — who knows?
It was like going off-road when you suddenly find an interesting road and decide to take it. And as we progressed, the road became more and more interesting. The first orgasm was so weak that I wasn’t even sure I really came.
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The more I practiced, the easier it became for me to find that path again and again, but sometimes, if I wasn”t feeling well, I”d get off track again. However, it is now much easier to come during masturbation than during vaginal sex. So sex for me is more about sensuality and connection with a partner than orgasm.
Looking back on my 30s, I now wonder if I was already having random, weak orgasms. But the point is that if they did it, it was not quite the same as what was said about them in the movies or written about them in women”s magazines. There was no “wow”. Therefore, my partner and I mutually decided that it was an orgasm. Now I”m not so sure about it.”
Story 3: The Girl Who Could
Once upon a time, I was among the girls who had never experienced an orgasm. I came for the first time when I was 18, but had already had six or seven lovers and hundreds of sexual interests — vibrators, etc.
But I took part in real sexual adventures and slept with the director of the play. There I played a role. I explained my situation to him and he offered me a bet. So after we sat with the actors at the bar, we came home with him, he opened a bottle of wine, and everything began. This went on for at least an hour.
Even though I was drunk and energetic, I felt terribly bored along the way. Of course, now I am very grateful for his efforts, but this is the best oral sex in history, but when you have never had an orgasm within 30 minutes, it is completely unnerving.
I wanted to fake an orgasm, only to finally stop, I was about to give up, and I thought — fuck it! Let him do this as much as he wants because I agree. So I allowed myself to relax, started to rely on my feelings and dreamed up a little.
Girl Achieves 50 Orgasms a Day
My first orgasm was painful and very strong. And for the rest of my life it took me 45 minutes to remember that cunnilingus.
I”m now 23 years old, I”ve had 25 different sexual partners, and I”ve already had hundreds of orgasms. Of course, if you never finish, you need to try hard. However, take it as a good time, relax and don”t worry about whether you can finish. Surrender to the process, breathe deeply and evenly, and try to initiate yourself so that it is an action.”
Story 4: Stream of Consciousness
“Disclaimer: I have severe ADHD. This means that I find it very difficult to focus on one object or activity for long periods of time.
Even though I can usually have an orgasm (and most of the time I do, even if it takes more than 30 minutes, I force myself to finish it), I almost always need some kind of huge expensive toy and I need it. very long sessions.
To be honest, my problem is mostly mental, not physical.
75% of the time I try not to think about anything that isn”t part of it, but sometimes it gets in my head and ruins my mood. I constantly think:
- “Well, I have to remember to sit down and write my essay today because I have it due in three days.” However, I need to buy myself a new pen, I recently saw that one of my friends has a cool pen. By the way, she has gained so much weight over the past few months, which is what happened to her.”
- “Cleaning”. Here you need to remove them urgently. What are those my socks on the floor, hey, I”ve been looking for them all morning!
- “By the way, how much money do I have in my account?”
- “Wow, are those thigh stickers?” You need to google it. What if this is a symptom of some terrible disease, for example, cancer!” (Yes, yes, I’m a hypochondriac too).
- What is this noise? Did that damn dog hit the chair again when it tried to bite its tail? God.”
- “I need to wash the dishes.”
- The previous episodes of Doctor Who were great. What will happen with the continuation, today is simply the premiere of the new series.”
And in a circle. Always. This is terrible.
But the other 25% of my brain rewires me and sends me erotic fantasies.
Yes. No wonder I masturbated for years.
And the worst thing is that I usually start masturbating with the desire to do it, all these thoughts just exhaust me.
God, my heart rate increased as I typed this. It”s time to take a break.”
