What kind of sex will bring pleasure to both partners?
The best sex of your life — what is it? This question is answered by sex experts (Angela Jones, Jess O”Reilly, Constance Adams) and frank Reddit users.
Contents of the article:
The best sex is when.
- . there is plenty of time for foreplay.
Fast, passionate sex is great, but most girls still need some quality foreplay to get aroused (and orgasm).
- . you use all your senses.
Light candles, play with light and scents. Don”t underestimate the importance of atmosphere during sex.
- . A girl never forgets herself.
It”s normal to appreciate your partner”s pleasure, but many girls (especially at the beginning of a relationship) completely forget about themselves. Play with one goal and the concept of good sex are incompatible.
- . You tease each other beforehand.
I look forward to meeting you. You start exchanging lewd messages hours before your date. By the time you finally meet, sexual tension is at its peak.
- . You masturbate in front of each other.
Not only do you get real pleasure, but you also learn something new about each other”s preferences. The knowledge gained will be useful to you in the future.
- . tell each other what you want to say.
Why beat around the bush when you can give your partner clear instructions? This greatly increases the chances of both of you reaching orgasm.
- . you are not afraid to show how you feel.
Many girls complain that their boyfriends do not make sounds during sex or oral sex, thereby depriving women of almost half the pleasure of sex. Men make mutual claims and insist that the moans of their beloved women can be more exciting than any complex technique. Learn from the mistakes of others. Don”t make your own mistakes.
- . use toys.
Progress never stops, so you have to take advantage of it.
- . You do it in front of the mirror
Take the best seat in the house and enjoy your own erotic show.
- . You look into each other”s eyes
Both during penetration and during oral sex.
Read also: When sex is fun: 8 pleasurable positions for better sex sex should be fun. If there are times when you want to cry out in pain or step back just a little, then it”s time.
Oral and manual caresses should also be noted and can become the highlight of the program.
- . play with temperature.
The old technique of alternating hot and cold drinks in the mouth during fellatio is, of course, good, but is contraindicated if the teeth are sensitive. Touching each other with ice cubes or massaging with warm oil are less painful ways to enjoy the contrast in temperatures.
- . you do it on a swing
If you like thrills and unusual experiments, consider buying a sex swing. You definitely need to remember one thing!
- . use good lubricant.
It eases discomfort and helps if you are bothered by unusual smells or tastes during oral sex.
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- . You do it with clothes
There”s something particularly “dirty” about it — as if you”re so excited that you”re not willing to spend a minute doing something as stupid as undressing.
- . to music.
Prepare a playlist in advance and add songs that are special to you.
- . the pain or discomfort is unbearable.
All this happens during sex. Tension and lack of complete trust between you is the key to violent orgasms.
- . you do it spontaneously.
After all, sooner or later, scheduled sex can become boring.
Reddit: Reddit users” opinions
“What needs to happen to make sex not only good, but fun?” — asked one of the Raditors. This is the answer he received:
- “I recently started dating a girl and our relationship is moving very quickly. We were discussing fetishes in our text messages and last night we had sex. This is the craziest and dirtiest thing I have ever done in my life.
Before this night, my sex life was very vanilla. So it probably seems crazy. But this girl gave me just a crazy blowjob. I”ve only seen such enthusiasm in pornography. Then she gave me a real pro and con. It was disgusting and hot — at the same time. I didn”t know how I would react to all of this, but it was amazing. No one has ever managed to make me feel shame and lust at the same time during sex” — aqua_mane.
- “Her legs were shaking, she was screaming, spasms were going through her body, her vagina was wet, ecstasy was frozen on her face. In short, her orgasm was about to happen” — Zinkremoval.
- “What do you really mean? Deep emotional connection is important to me. Crazy sex with a stranger is cool, but it”s just like a better version of masturbation.
My best sex was with my wife. It was pleasant not only in a physical sense, but also in an emotional sense” — Mrtumin.
- “When a man and I felt synchronicity. When there is no self-interest. And a ban” — Shorse_rider.
- “If there is an orgasm, that’s great, but it’s even more important that both partners are passionate about the matter and enjoy each other” — Teodaro.
And, of course, don’t forget the main rule of good sex — the body should be busy and the head should be free (from unnecessary thoughts and complexes). If this rule is followed, consider that it is already in your pocket.
