Dreaming is not harmful: why are you lonely and how to deal with it
You’ve probably heard both of these statements more than once, but don’t you fundamentally agree with them? How can you love a person when you see that not every person you know with pleasure hits or fits into the pile? Perhaps this is why you are still single and lacking dream evenings – are you waiting?
- The woman follows
- The people are as follows.
You may not have met someone with Hollywood looks yet, but your appearance meets all modern beauty standards and you just want to find someone suitable.
Unlikely, however. Look around. In the overwhelming majority of cases, a man who has far from the most attractive appearance finds himself next to a dazzling beauty, and vice versa, the wife is completely lost in a wonderful man who does not look like a gray mouse. What is this? Some kind of compensation? No. These are people who choose their partners not by appearance, but by similarity of interests, character and life goals. Appearance is the tenth thing.
Single people looking for a mate who fits some invented norm are very common, but in themselves they are nothing interesting.
A woman must be:
- Beautiful people as such are not shy about photos on the Internet;
- Smart and they have something to say;
- Sports: has long legs and a well-trained body;
- Success: working a good job and earning good money;
- Well-groomed: strictly needs a manicure from a cosmetologist, solarium and pedicure;
- Dressed nicely: high heels, short skirts, stylish clothes;
- Household: can be cooked, cleaned and removed;
- Note: Some characteristics of mothers are inevitably necessary, and it is the woman’s duty to assist the man in everything;
- A good mother: must have at least two children, preferably three, in order to develop and raise them. Children should be our future.
And there is no point in going to work to serve your conscription, nodding your head now and still living with your mother herself, who has already begun to go bald, grow a belly, sin with the institute, sin for three. A woman should, his mother and psychologist told him that he owes nothing to anyone, a person should be free!
This does not mean that lesser demands are placed on the fairer sex.
A man must be:
- The wise, foolish man went;
- Great, long gone are the days when “a little better than a monkey” was a passing grade;
- Sports: Nice cheap relief is very sexy. There should be a cube in the stomach;
- Success: he must have a great career and not very great prospects;
- Rich: an apartment, a car, money are essential attributes of a dream man;
- Well-groomed hands: manicure and light tanning on a man’s hands look divine;
- Be stylish and don’t shy away from public speaking.
Why loneliness occurs and what can be done about it
We must admit that the chosen ones are still walking around somewhere, which is not surprising. Perhaps the prince and princess have a certificate of conformity somewhere.
What to do?
This eternal question has tormented many bright minds, but in our situation the guide to action is obvious.
Have you made a list of qualities of the person of your dreams? Perfect! Now go through the points and analyze yourself, your loved ones and compliance with the requirements. Ready? Have you identified any inconsistencies? Perfect! We are starting to plan:
- Direct. Do you want to learn, or do you have your own way to improve your level or read a good book? Wash items or pick up textbooks;
- Beauty is profit. Nature has given us some data, but almost anyone can work. He doesn’t work on his own – we look for experts. Outrageous? Find a celebrity who is similar to you, analyze and copy their style and mannerisms. Here you will also find glasses with style and well packaged glasses. The advice is the same: don’t be afraid to be yourself. No desire – turn off the glasses;
- Sport. If all surfaces are covered with a soft layer of fat, then go straight to the gym, or grab the handle to erase this item;
- Success. A whole shelf of books has been written on this subject. The alternative is to explore and carefully pursue a career or quit;
- Economics is simple. From now on, your home should be a role model, like the pictures in the Housewife’s Guide. Not ready? We destroy;
- Attention. For now, we are conducting trainings with parents, grandparents and other relatives of parents. You can also add close friends here. I don’t want? We destroy;
- It is difficult to say anything in advance about good parents, but it is worth taking a closer look at the children of your friends and checking their parental role. If not, we destroy.
Well, now you can either work on yourself or dream about someone who will take care of the remaining items. Is there really not one left? Draw conclusions.
