There are no hopeless situations: a guide to ending relationships
Many people have written about relationships, about how to find out. But how to complete something that has already exhausted itself, can it somehow be completed? In the open text, there are definitive people who can say that their partner is full of bitter radish, but since they read this article, ti means they are being hindered by illness, pity, upbringing or other reasons. Let’s think about something together.
Contents of the article:
There is no sadder story in the world
You need to come up with a story and tell it in a way that isn’t too harsh on the other person. If the relationship has just started and you already know that nothing good will come out of it, you can easily do this because the other party doesn’t think so. You talk about how you are actually almost married, but the other half went on a business trip, and here is this dizzying romance where you have to go back to the beginning of your relationship, and you discover that nothing good has come of it. Everything was wonderful, but now insight comes. In fact, there is nothing serious on your part.
If the relationship is long-term, you need to make the story more interesting. What about the fact that you just met your first love yesterday, and your old feelings flared up again? And now you are completely out of luck. You are very sorry that this happened, but you cannot cope with yourself.
If you weather the emotional storm, you will be free. But risks are possible. Some particularly persistent individuals may try to “open their eyes” in the “second half”. Of course, this doesn’t exist now. Don’t start a serious romance anytime soon. Until the victims cool down. For all firefighters.
Exhausting the enemy with a long run
Almost literally. Don’t you dare talk – run away. Don’t go on social networks, don’t pick up your phone and don’t put it in your usual place. Ideally, leave for a month. Loading from vacation. The photographs should be very interesting. Preferably with a “new hobby”, even if it’s just a hotel roommate. Ask to have your photo taken several times.
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falling in love is like a mental disorder. It makes us dizzy and makes us do things we would never do in our right minds.
Being labeled a “bastard” is guaranteed, but when you return, you’re free. A final conversation is possible, but unlikely. Attempts to find a relationship are often “I think we’ve got it all figured out!”
Disclosure of shortcomings
Perhaps you know of some traits your partner absolutely hates. For example, picking your nose.
Agree to be caught after this intimate activity. If they understand and forgive, then move on to the next flaw. In war, even if they don’t like it, it’s still good. Tolerance. Combing and soaping your hair, cutting your nails in private, picking your teeth, feet, and other places, not washing your hands after using the toilet—you’re not even bothering!
Someone: there are no hopeless situations! my situation:
Sooner or later, the cup of patience runs over, and you’re dumped.
Better a terrible ending
If you do come up with something that’s not your style, if you do come up with something that’s not your style, only one way remains the best. We must find the strength to admit it.
It’s best to do this on neutral territory, so after the explanation, it’s easier to retreat into an unknown direction. A quiet, calm cafe is ideal. Don’t choose a place associated with good memories or favorite things. Relationships last a lifetime, so it’s better to be somewhere you’ve never been or that you don’t like. Practice at home and create a rough draft of your speech. Take a few deep breaths and begin. The key is to avoid interrupting or making eye contact. Focus on your coffee or whatever you ordered. Be brief, clear, concise, and honest. Don’t try to soften your speech. Otherwise, you’ll think it’s a mistake and can still be corrected.
The main idea must be clear the first time, because the second time might not stand it. It won’t last, and nothing can be corrected!
Laika Samoyed, haircut. There are no hopeless situations)))
